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Sex: female
Age: 23
Location: Summerville, South Carolina, United States
Status: Married
Rating: 0.00
Rating points: 0
Member since: August 05, 2007
Last logged in: January 16, 2012, 09:05pm
Occupation: In love with my wonderful husband and Dom
Account Status: Free Account
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My name is Jezebel though I have been known as Carisma. I answer to both! I used to give out my personal name, but I'm learning better. So if you know my real name don't use it in my comments please and thank you. I've been a member of vampirefreaks.com since: August 04, 2007. I am one of the leaders of The Next Generation: Charleston. Which is a 18-30 Group based in Charleston, South Carolina. The other leader is Suntzu. We have monthly munches, play parties, and demo's though the most important thing is we teach BDSM safety within our community to people in our own age group.

General Information
Allias: Jezebel
Age: 20
DOB: January 19th 1989
Sex: Prefered every other day
Hair: Blonde/Brown
Eyes: Brown
Height: 5ft 4inches
Experience: 7 years and counting
Location: North Charleston, South Carolina



I will not respond to bitch, hoe, or etc. I'm 20 years old, I'm married to David_Jonathan, and I'm switch. Though it takes a very Dominant person to control me. I have 6-7 years experience including online and real time experience in the Lifestyle, but very little as a Dominant. I don't consider myself "SEASONED", nor will I ever. To be seasoned to me means that I have little more to learn, and in this vast world BDSM is ever growing and changing. I will never stop learning what it is and means to me and to others around me.

My play partner and protector is Suntzu. He's a wonderful young Dominant that I'm honored to call my friend and room mate. I've been doing my best to help him find his way in the BDSM world and within the community. We've also been doing various scene's together so that he can gain experience. I've also beeing mentoring him. He's also a wonderful photographer seeng as a lot of my pictures were taken by him. One being my profile picture which everyone loves. So if you would like to have any pictures taken then I recomend him.

Next, Yes this mean I am a switch! No, I'm not confused I am both a submissive and a Female Dominate. If you have a problem with that there is a back button at the top of the screen click it.

Then, on starting the lifestyle at 13 1/2. I started BDSM June 23rd 2001 at 8 pm at night. I was with a young male Dominant at the time that I really liked. I have always had a thing for older guys. Well either way I was being really bratty that day, and he decided that he had just about enough of my mouth. Next, thing I knew I was over his lap getting a "SPANKING" I thought he lost his mind. Till all of a sudden my entire world spun. It turned me on! I thought I must have been the most fucked up person in the world at that moment in time. Till he righted me on his lap and started lecturing me, and I told him what it had done. He explained to me that he thought that I was a submissive, and that it was completely normal. At first I didn't believe him. Though over the next 3 years he opened my eyes to the world and lifestyle I love now which is BDSM. Though just for the nosy it was completely non-sexual. Yes, it turned me on, but I was never touched there and I always had panties on.

On being married. My husband knows who and what I am and approves of it. So if you think I'm such cuckholding wife I'm sorry, but I'm not.

Being a switch is very hard, because people don't understand it. There is a part of me that want so submit so deeply it can break bonds, but then there is another part of me that wants power and control. I need them both like light and dark. They are both a part of me, and it's not something I can change.

My life as a young female dominant is also very difficult. I have two years real time experience and around four years online experience. Though even with that it can still be hard. Especially, with doing real time now. I have boys that will try to see if they can make me submit to them during a session. All kinds of craziness. Though I have always enjoyed a challenge.

My life as a submissive has been very hard. I have meet a lot of men and women that I really wish I hadn't. I have been trained under many that I wish I hadn't. Though, in the end it has made me stronger. It has given me wisedom far beyond my age. I have been raped and beaten at the hands of a careless angry male Dom. This isn't something I am proud of, but it has taught me to be more careful.

My new chapter, is that I'm opening doors to becoming a slave. I am not yet one I am very much still a submissive though I'm not afraid of it anymore. I am doing a lot of reserach on it and me a David_Jonathan are talking about taking our D/s relationship to a M/s level which has actually become very exciting to me.

My Collar

I think I need to take a moment to define my collar. Even though I wear a metal bracelet that is my "collar" it's only a consideration collar not a formal collared. I will be given a formal collar when my husband decides to formally collar me at a formal ceramony.

Radom Facts:


  • I'm a kitty


  • If someone buys me kitty ears for Christmas... I'll play kitty for them
  • My personal safeword is Applesauce it has a story so ask.
  • If I fear someone I ask to play with them.
  • I'm very colorful and unique
  • No one label will ever fit me
  • I look outside the box
  • I get stressed out & worried easily
  • NEVER make a dead baby joke around me



  • Things that scare me


  • Being home alone during thunder & lighting storms
  • Being Alone in the dark
  • Being Alone in open waters
  • Closets
  • Spiders







  • *My husband
    *My Twins Annesley & Adrianna "RIP"
    *Tinkerbell
    *Being cuddled
    *water (especially the rain)
    *colorful people
    *food
    *my combat boots ^.^
    *anime




    My Fetishes


  • 24/7 D/s
  • Domestic Discipline
  • Bondage
  • Spankings
  • Hand Spankings
  • Impact Play
  • Knife Play
  • Wax Play
  • Rope Bondage
  • Interrogations
  • Ice Cubes
  • Humiliation
  • Hot Waxing
  • Handcuffs
  • Hair Pulling
  • Hairbrushes-spanking-abrasion
  • Orgasm Denial
  • Nipple Torture
  • Nipple Clamps
  • Mummification (Not over face or neck)
  • Mind Fucks

    Curious about


  • Fire Play
  • Needle Play
  • Play Piercings
  • Voilent Wands
  • TNS Units
  • Drangon Tails

    Toys I like to use & to be used on me


  • Floggers
  • Canes
  • Paddles
  • Single Tails
  • Quips
  • Crops



  • *dishonest people
    *people that think nothing of their lives or themselves
    *non-orginial people
    *whores in general
    *rating whores
    *Premium members that abuse their abilities
    *People who think they are the shit when they aren't




    Hard Limits


  • No Sex
  • No Oral
  • No Penatration
  • Breath play
  • Choking
  • Nothing over my neck
  • Branding
  • Face Slapping
  • Choking
  • Confinement/Caging
  • Don't lock me in a closet especially a dark one
  • Please never cover my face with like a pillow
  • Coprophilia (Shit Play)/Scat
  • Water Sports done to me
  • Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)
  • Fisting (No more then 3 fingers I like being tight)
  • Will not play on mentral
  • Infantilism/Diapers
  • Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema)
  • Podophilia (Foot Fetish) (I don't touch feet, but you can touch mine)
  • The Rack/Medieval Devices
  • Rimming
  • Leather Belts
  • Leather Straps
  • Pedofiles's stay the fuck away from me
  • Bestiality HELL NO





  • The reason you are probally even viewing my page is because you are applying to my cult The_Lifestyle. Well let me tell you a secret as long as you are over 18+ fill out the application and follow the rules you will get in, but if you don't keep follwing the rules and stay active you will be kicked out. If you just happened across my page then click the above banner and check it out. If you want something small then click the banner below and check out Sleezy.


    Then these are all cults that I am a active member in. If you want me to join your cult my inbox is your best bet, but it has to actually catch my attention.

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    I love Rock, Country, Christian, and R&B Here is a list of a couple of my favorite bands/artists.
    Greenday, All American Idiots, Simple Plan, Yellow Card, Lacuna Coil, Blink 182, Breaking Benjamen, Blindside, Stretch Armstrong, Flyleaf, Evenaescance, Hoobastank, NickleBack, Korn, Slipknot, Nirvana, Savage Garden, Bonnie Tyler, Sublime, Three Days Grace, U2, Carrie Underwood, Brooks and Dunn, Hank Williams & Jr, Big and Rick,Deana Carter, Diamond Rio, Dixie Chicks, Faith Hill, Jonny Horton, Keith Urban, Martina Mcbride, Rascal Flatts, Tim McGraw, Toby Keith, Trisha Yearwood, Willey Nelson, Casting Crowns, Switchfoot,Jeremy Camp, Mercy Me, The Chemistry, Third Day, Pillar, Jars of Clay, and Carmen.
    Yeah there are many many more, but I think I'll stop for now.




    Currently Seeking

    Online - Financial Submissive

  • You have to be able to tribute on a regular basis
  • Consideration is 1 week long more if you screw up your tasks.
  • You will be given rules, punishments, and tasks
  • Tasks will be just about daily during consideration week
  • Once you complete the week you will be claimed by me or turned away
  • If claimed you will be give your name.

    Once Mine

  • You will be required to tribute each time you are paid so if you get paid twice a month you will tribute twice a month if you get paid every week you will tribute every week.
  • Tasks & Assignments will be weekly
  • Punishments are issued when needed
  • Rewards are given if you do well
  • Cam session will be often
  • I do get on cam for my boys

    Honored Position

  • Boys that stay with me for six months straigh are given honored positions
  • They are sent real collars with real name tags
  • They have my personal number and most know me by name
  • They are given the most attention and are deeply cared for.

    To Become One of my Real Time Boys or Girls

  • You will be required to do send $50.00 through pay-pal or niteflirt to ensure if you stand me up you haven't wasted my time or my gas.
  • Meet 2-3 times in a public location of my choice with my protector present
  • Once, you have been deemed sane and we click then you will be asked to come to my home
  • We will discuss what we are both looking for in a more private setting.
  • A long conversation about your limits will occur
  • I like to know you in the kinky and vanilla world
  • You will be asked to preform various task to see your experience level.
  • If you satisfy me you will be asked to return.
  • If you don't you will be asked to not return.

    Requirement to become mine [Real Time]

    Males: will be 100% Non-sexual. Though that may change in time.

  • You will need to be able to cook basic items.
  • Cleaning is an essential
  • I hate doing dishes sooo you will be doing them for me.
  • You will be allowed to hand wash my delicate panties and bra's if you are really good.
  • You may be asked to help to do yard work or simple requires.
  • Your main job though is to entertain me & keep me company.

    I would very much also enjoy to .....

  • As long as your work is done
  • Private, discreet public and verbal humiliation sessions
  • I love cock & ball torture
  • Strap-on play for my really good boys
  • Being allowed to attend various fetish events with me
  • Being allowed to serve me & my guest at various fetish evens I host
  • Allowing you to be used by my friends
  • Various other BDSM things I enjoy example: bondage, flogging, chastity, dragon tails, electric play, wax play, temperature play, and etc.

    Females: Sexual Play for GOOD girls

  • You will be a sexual pet for me and possibly my partner
  • Nudity will be required unless outside
  • Various toys will be inserted in you through out the day.
  • I hope you enjoy eating cunt because you will have to eat a lot of it.
  • You main goal will be to please me.
  • Though if you are naughty you will be assigned chores and various other punishments.


    More information is located on My website


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