Hello and welcome to my humble little slice of VF. My name is Clare or Missy whichever is easier for you, I don't mind. I have been on VF for roughly six years and this has always been my profile, I haven't changed my name nor have I made any other accounts (apart from my children's band profile, which I made as I thought it was quite cute).
As I before mentioned, I have children, two boys to be exact, Dylan who is 9 and Ryan who is 8, both my kids I adore. Anyone wanting in my life has to respect that and take them on board as well as myself. They light up my life. I am teaching them that it is fine to be who you want to be, in a world like today, we all need to be our own person, not what someone is trying to drum into us. I have never been part of a crowd and I don't want my children to be blinded by such foolishness that they can't see themselves for who they could be. Individuality is not very common nowadays and I think that to thrive on getting the best out of life, you need to be an individual.
So about me, I am a very honest person, I speak my mind, I try to be as nice as possible to anyone that I talk to, I hate confrontation, I hate unnecessary drama, or any other kind of abuse. I 'used' to be a drug addict so if so happen to pop onto your profile and see that 'drugs are cool' or 'I like to do this that and the other' I probably won't even talk to you. It isn't right and it isn't being 'cool', it is damn right annoying and not the kind of promotion I want to be involved in. Saying that I am going to contradict myself here, I am very open minded, I do not try and push my values or opinions on anyone, it is your life and I am not going to interfere with what you want to do.
I tend to think of myself as a good communicator, I would like to think of myself as a good friend, adviser, comforter and generally all round friend to those that know me. I do admit I can be quite harsh at times, perhaps not the best person to come to for advice, not unless you want an honest answer or a different perspective.
I am very sarcastic, ironic and I have a weird sense of humour. I can't describe said sense of humour because it would be trying to define me as a person. I do not like trying to define myself as I honestly don't know 'who' I am. I am just me. Funny right? I bet there are loads of people who define themselves as just 'me' but that is the only way I can define myself if I were going to.
I am probably boring you right now. Though to be fair, I really don't care, if you have gotten this far down my profile to read it all, then lets give you a round of applause. *claps*
Finally coming to the end of this description (I bet you need a coffee now) I will say this, I get on with anyone, if you ever so needed a shoulder to cry on, a stranger to talk to, someone to confide in, I am there. I like to think that the people I have on my messenger lists think of me as a friend as they are to me.
Thank you for taking the time out in reading this, I know it is rather long winded but we all got to start somewhere. Bye for now, Clare.
I enjoy reading any kind of book but anything associated with serial killers, mass murderers and unsolved crimes are my favourite. I find these reads rather interesting. I feel I can create myself being there as it happened in my head. Whether it be fictional or true. I have always been interested in books since I was a child and my collection has became slightly more extensive than what it was.
I enjoy writing, poems mostly and usually depending on the way I feel, or whatever emotion tend to take over at that time, I feel that if I let my emotions take over, the words link in together with perfect harmony. I have however, wrote a couple of short stories, though these have been put on hold due to the fact I have no inspiration.
Another thing I enjoy is drawing or doodling, mostly when I do this, I let my mind go blank and I just let my hands do all the work, usually though nothing ever comes from the picture, and to some it looks like abstract work, others it looks like a bunch of scribble on a piece of paper.. To me it's a way out of my mind and into something constructive, even if it is only a doodle.
I enjoy watching movies, I am a slight movie buff. I mainly enjoy horrors, but I watch anything. I am not going to list them as there is too many to list and to pick out a few that jump into my mind would be rather unfair to the other greats I have forgotten about. Although I do tend to lean towards British made films, I like the warped story lines towards certain British made films
I dislike the way people treat you because of the way you dress, if they got to know me they would find I am actually quite articulate.
I also dislike the way our children are brought up to be 'part of the crowd' what ever happened to individuality? Has it been replaced by another bunch of children who are destined to be robots for the rest of their life?
I dislike it when people think I am some kind of sex object, I am not that pretty, I am not 'hot' I am just a mother of two boys who wants the best for them.
Although saying that, I dislike the fact of being lonely, I would love to have someone in my life, someone the kids can look at as a father figure, someone that wants me for me and not what I can give them, bleed me dry and then throw me away when they are done.
I have quite an ecclectic taste in music, ranging from a variation of bands and solo artists. To list a few of my favourites a this precise moment in time it would have to be like this. Depeche Mode (one of my all time favs) Joy Division, Black Flag, The Cranberries, Ian brown, The Smiths, The Cure, the Jam, The Who, NOFX, Sick of it all, Ignite, Gorilla Biscuits, Channel 3, Black Sabbath, metallica, Nirvana, to name just a few