"The important thing is to be able to be ready at any moment to sacrifice what you are for what you might become." -Charles Dubois
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Sex: male Age: 25 Location: Newark,
Delaware, United States
Member since: March 27, 2007 Account: Free Account Orientation: Gay Status: Single Occupation: Dissenter
First off, my name is Cory and I'm going to soon reside in the Newark, DE, USA area. I am a very complex and unique person and I hope you enjoy reading my profile. The following paragraphs desribe me well and the list of adjectives that follow them also provide at least a bit of insight into who I am.
I'm a historian and an anthropologist. Observing is a part of daily life and my active mind is one of the most beautiful eccentricities about me. Communicating with precision makes me very honest and capable. This makes me a very good friend and companion. I am perhaps too blunt, at times, in an effort to lessen bullshit.
I am myself. I change everyday. I cannot be stereotyped, because nothing in life is as easy as black and white. I was different yesterday and I will be different tomorrow.
Enlightened and open-minded are two adjectives that can be used to describe me. I enjoy talking to those that are similar to me in this respect. It is very challenging for me to tolerate ignorance or irrationality.
My sense of humor is one-of-a-kind. Politics, irrational things, stereotypes, and intellectual things are intertwined in my jokes. I feel that life is too short not to laugh at ourselves and our own silly stereotypes and situations.
Change is one of those things in life that is crucial to being happy and satisfied. Too often, people are unwilling to change and it destroys them bit by bit and wrecks a lot of potential in many. I admit that change has been difficult for me. Skepticism and cynicism had bound me for years, but changing perception was critical in helping me to get through life in a healthier way. I still struggle with it, but I'm making progress.
I would like to meet similar-minded people. Take time out for me and I'll take time out for you. If you're up to it, send me a quick message and we'll converse for a while. My SN info is on this page. Thanks for reading ^.^ Quick academic r�sum� and goals:
- Graduated from a semi-rural high school in Pennsylvania in 2005 with a 3.9 GPA. - Graduated from an honors college with a 3.2 GPA in 2010 with a Bachelor of Arts in History and Anthropology. - Goal: Move to a city (preferably Boston or Philadelphia) and create a more positive lifestyle for myself. A change of atmosphere is desired in the short term. - Goal: After moving, find people with similar interests, opinions, and experiences. Adjectives that can be used to describe me:
- Logical - Strategic / Observative - Nurturing (also needs to be nurtured while in a relationship, which can seem needy) - Intelligent - Open-minded (sometimes I'm too open-minded and say what some could consider to be some fucked up shit) - Thoughtful - Inquisitive - Descriptive - Communicative - Impatient (though it depends on the subject) - Responsible (sometimes I'm too responsible) - Rebellious - Socially anxious - Funny / Hilarious (dark humor, perverted humor, witty) - Cautious - Introverted (in public, with family) - Extraverted (with friends) - Wise - Urban-phobic (was raised to be this way and still haven't kicked it. I hope to move to a city soon to rid myself of this) - A great aura (you can tell there's something special and comforting about me) - Blunt (but has a censoring device for delicate moments) - Confident (about personality, capability) - Insecure (about body, but not about lips/eyes) - Opinionated (about subjects that he has extensive experience with) - Stubborn (have been working on this the last few months and have become a bit less stubborn) - Researcher (we live in the Information Age... knowledge is constantly at our fingertips so why not use it?) - Advocate (for certain movements) - Enlightened - Mildly skeptical (until proven otherwise) - Smartass - Committed / Loyal/ Trustworthy - Hardworking - Accurate (especially with things like typing errors and remembering critical info)
Likes
DISCLAIMER: I'm blunt about these things, so be forewarned that some things described are sexual.
- Videogames (XBOX, computer; FPSs are my fave, sports games are fun too) - dogs (except labs, poodles... breeds like that) - roller coasters - TV programs (Queer as Folk, Tosh.O, Will & Grace, The Golden Girls, Family Guy, 24, That 70's Show) - Movies (mystery, thriller, historical, anti-establishment - Shawshank Redemption, Se7en, Kingdom of Heaven, Silent Hill, The Last Samurai, The Edukators) - European languages (can speak Spanish at an intermediate level and German at a beginner's level) - European music (particularly industrial and nu metal) - Europe and what it represents - Board and card games (Rummy, Gin, Poker, Solitaire, Risk, Chess) - Sports (watching - college football, tennis; playing - basketball, bowling, tennis) - Advocacy groups (feminists, gay rights, children's rights) - History (US and European) - Anthropology (cultural anthropology, linguistics) - Mathematics (statistics, trigonometry, algebra) - Meteorology (severe weather - hurricanes, tornadoes, snow storms) - Springtime (the newness of everything, nature coming out of its dormancy) - Nature (animals, mountains, forests, lakes, beaches, flowers, trees) - Romantic things (bubble baths, flowers, stuffed animals, dancing, kissing, hugging, cuddling, long walks, holding someone/ being held, sunsets) - Debating / Conversing - Helping people (with problems, to achieve their goals) - Turn-ons (penises, foreplay, caressing, kissing, eyes, lips, piercings, styled medium-length hair, oral and anal sex (including barebacking, but only with the right guy), tight underwear, tight clothes, skinny boys, skinny girls (* I could never date a girl, but might be willing to screw around with some really hot ones) - Being nurtured (gugs, being held / holding someone) - Laughing (I have a lot of fun with my friends and can make anyone laugh) - Crying (I like crying because I usually only cry when I see others happy/ achieving their goals or dreams) - My cell phone (my main form of communication) - The sound of rain (especially sleeping while it's raining) - Alternative accessories (necklaces, bracelets, piercings, rings, etc.) - My friends (where would I be without them?) - Charities (I'm glad that at least some organizations out there are taking care of the poor since the government isn't) - Analyzing/ Strategizing - Relaxing (life is too stressful and too short to always be doing something "constructive") - Learning new things (the day that I stop learning is the day I want to be dead) - Moderate temperatures (I'm not a hot or a cold person, but am right in between) - Drinks (water, juices, teas, some sodas) - Food (fruits, ham made with pineapples and cherries, pastas, pizza, bread, pies, salads, chocolate, vanilla) - Giving and receiving gifts (though I hate Christmas because I think gifts should be given at random and not necessarily for any reason other than that you care for another person) - Pornography - Comptuers/ the Internet - The feeling you get after you get a shower *purrs* - Colors (Black, Blue, Turquoise, Teal, Silver) - Wearing tight underwear (all types and brands)
Dislikes
DISCLAIMER: Notice this section is titled Dislikes not Hates.
- Hypocrisy - Screamy music (music where you can't even understand what they're saying. I do listen to some screamy-ish bands, but they usually aren't that bad.) - Liars - Ignorance / Religion / Irrationality - Cats (they just aren't fun and I'm allergic to them) - US establishments and governments (too long to list) - Arid climates - Immaturity / Irresponsibility - Elite classes / The rich / Snobby people - Unrealistic movies (especially ones that feature zombies, aliens, mutants, etc.) - Macho straight guys / prissy women - Spoiled brats - Being lonely (which happens a lot because I have many interests that are different than the interests of my friends) - War (get ready, because calamity or not, we're going to run out of resources and war will come) - Usage of fossil fuels / Damage to the environment / Lack of recycling - Where I grew up and the atmosphere that I must try to survive in - Wasps and hornets (wanna see me run fast? XD) - Excessive body hair / Creepy, older gay men (mind as well as chunk these two together :P) - People who see things as simply black or white instead of some shade of gray - My bad decisions (namely... to go to college, not to go to Finland for a semester during college, among others) - Traffic / Construction zones/ Bad or impatient drivers - Children (the world is populated enough and every child that is produced gets us one step closer to doom... just put a cork in it already. People that have one kid doesn't bother me, but two or more is simply not necessary) - Television commercials (rotting our brains, especially when almost 1/3 of a program is commercials) - Agendas (especially hidden ones - doctors, politicians) - Playing games (relationship-wise) - Glasses (sorry, glasses hide from the beauty of eyes and shouldn't be worn unless absolutely necessary) - Stress / Anxiety - Boxers (guys... please burn them because they are gross. Just kidding... you should wear what is comfortable for you, but if you want to date me, don't wear them around me kthnx :P) - Substances (smoking, drugs, snuff, alcohol - The first three are just bad, but alcohol can be okay in small doses and maybe more for rare special occasions) - Greed (Wal-Mart is a wonderful example) - Societal robots (clarification - people who will do anything to be normal and accepted)