Q: Did [insert modification] hurt?
...someone forced a piece of metal either through my flesh or into my flesh - what do you think?
Never ask this question - not to me, not to anyone.

Q: You've lost a lot of weight, what's your secret?
Simple two step program - eat less, move more.

Q: What makes YOU think YOU have the right to judge other people?
Most of the time, this message comes from people who were rejected from my cult, XxToxic_DollsxX, or people who have issues with application cults in general.

First and foremost, I judge because I am human and that is our legacy. Our species would not have become what it is today if it wasn't for our ability to observe and evaluate our surroundings. To deny us of that aspect is to deny us of our history. Even you judge at every turn; you wonder if it's going to rain, if this person is a worthwhile friend, or how long you can put off before writing your paper. We ALL judge EVERYTHING.

Secondly, it is not as though I prance around the internet looking for people to judge. Instead, I have a selected group where people who wish to gain admittance to submit an application to join. We don't judge the person, just what they've submitted for us to see. If that's an issue for you, don't join. It's really that simple.

But please, get rid of the "holier than thou, I don't judge others" attitude, because you do.