I hate creepy adults that flirt with underage children. Even worse if they try and give you BS information about themselves claiming they are high and mighty and have standards and would NEVER do or say anything inappropriate with a minor because they only appreciate real women. Oh really? Because from my perspective, there is no good reason to ever be saying things like "Mmmm fuck yes, I LOVE your shoes" in a private picture comment (guess what perverts, they aren't always as private as you might think )... to a 16 year old GIRL in a revealing outfit that is clearly trying to look "sexy". That comment is obviously flirtatious and implying sexual arousal. It would be a different story if a 16 year old boy said it, but it wasn't a 16 year old boy, it was from a 52 year old "man". There are plenty of adult women with attractive photos on this website, so its really beyond me why a man in his 50s needs to be giving that kind of attention to girls when its clearly not a platonic sort of attention. Would you say "Mmm fuck yes I LOVE your shoes" to an 8 year old little girl? No? Well why not? Because that would be really fucking creepy? Well no shit it would be creepy, so if you can't fucking say it to a child, don't say it to someone that is still legally a child, and more importantly, mentally a child still in terms of brain development. I am sick of people thinking its okay to speak to children that way just because they can look like they have adult bodies. The only people that should be Mmmming at 16 year olds is other 16 year olds or at least someone within a year or two of their age, otherwise its inappropriate because of the inherent imbalance of power that comes when one person is at a significantly lower stage of brain development compared to the other person.
A liar and a creep, lovely.
July 03, 2014, 08:16:pm
Yeah, that comment is not about the shoes at all. It is blatantly flirtatious, but by commenting about the SHOES and not the BODY they think they are being slick. Winning the girl's "affections" in a way, but not looking like a total pervert. Which is actually sort of worse, because that's pretty much how small grooming starts -.-
A liar and a creep, lovely.
July 03, 2014, 08:20:pm
Yeah there were multiple comments he left that girl, and comments on other girls even younger than her too. He was also saying things like "you pose well, you should be a model" "I like your outfit" and so on, and now this is perhaps critical on my part but the girl was doing low quality mirror selfies so.... the comment seemed really weird because it doesn't seem like shes even trying to model, it was just an attention seeking slefie.
A liar and a creep, lovely.
July 03, 2014, 08:23:pm
All your journals about the safety of the minors of VF need more props! Yeah, he was feeding their egos and most likely fragile self esteems (because most teens are very sensitive) to get a reply. And that can start a dialogue. And WHY does someone that old even WANT to be conversing with a minor? What could they even talk about? Music? Probably not. The only thing they have in common is being human, and guess what that implies? (Whoo, look at that thought train go!)
This post is in regards to a question I was asked today, and I have been asked more than once so I'm going to address it hear so my friends or anyone else who might be interested knows where I stand.
Pretty much everyone reading this knows that I model, and my main goal with it is to make myself happy; I don't do fan pages or try to become popular with contests and whatnot, I just do what I like to do and if other people like it, great.
A few people have asked if I sell my photos, and in theory I can. One of my photographers can do high quality prints in various sizes including poster size and he can bring them to me so I can sign and or personalize a message including the persons name or whatever else they might want within reason (I won't write something perverted for you, sorry not sorry). I have been offered money to do it, and so far I have turned down those offers. Why? Because I will not sell to just anyone. I care about the sort of person that wants to buy the prints and trust me, if I don't like what I see when I research you (and trust me, anyone that offers me money for anything related to my modeling, I research the hell out of you) I will NOT sell to you for any price. Seriously. I will not associate myself with anyone that in my opinion, is a pedophile or has any other chronophilia (it's a word, look it up) for persons that are not mentally adults, or for people where there is evidence that they like to exploit others. To me, this should be a pretty low standard, but on this website that automatically makes a lot of people here ineligible. A great way to become ineligible is to say creepy shit to me like "Mmmm u have sexi feet, can u do more feet potos jst 4 me plz?" (just so we are clear, NO.)
If you're an adult and a few of your friends are minors I'm not going to assume that you lust for children because obviously anyone can have a platonic friendship. But I do consider a lot of things, for instance, the public comments I see you leaving people, and honestly I would rather make 0 dollars from my modeling than to sell my prints to disgusting perverts that should be in prison for a lot of their sick behaviour.
So do I sell prints? Technically yes. But not to perverts, and sadly a lot of the people that follow models are perverted people that don't necessarily care about things like the fact that their "sexy" friend they ask to do favours for them might only be 15 or 16... disgusting.
*update* Just wanted to add, a lot of my model friends do have fan pages or enter contests related to modeling, I have nothing against those things ladies! If you want to do that, I support you fully, I just personally don't want to because I believe it encourages people to share and repost photos other places on the internet without necessarily asking permission first, personally I like to be asked permission.
Modeling prints for sale... maybe. I explain.
July 02, 2014, 05:32:pm
You joke, but I swear at least once a month I get a new weirdo saying something creepy about my feet. I personally don't care what fetishes people have as long as it has nothing to do with children or animals, but the feet people seem to frequently ask for the "personalized" foot photos, and sorry but that is just not a good way to start a conversation LOL.
silklungs sent me the layout last night so I been doing the main updating of the cult now!
I love the layout and graphics she made, she always amazes me with her skills.
Anyways I do need some help running this so if anyone feel like they want to help me out that would be great!
I'm not the most demanding owner in the world, if you post and invite when you can I'm happy!
Just a head's up:
I'm going away on vacation from 3rd july-4th August so then I will not be very active!
Everyone can join! Even if they don't cosplay, if you enjoy seeing other people cosplay that's ok! I will update usertitles and stuff after I sleep a bit. Been up for 24 hours now, worked 10.5 of them...
I came across an interesting comment on youtube and thought i'd share it here and discuss ...so here it is:
"Does anyone think scavenging in real life would be fun? Okay, here's a fun idea. Take a movie set, or a bunch of abandoned houses, and hide stuff in most of the houses, in cabinets and closets. Then, hide stuff in boxes sparsely scattered in the surrounding area. Finally, task your friends with living for 48 hours in the area, without anything but their clothes. You should hide food, clothes and survival gear. You could spice it up by mixing it with paintball, so you can shoot other people without it being dangerous. I would definitely play something like that. Tell me if this is a good idea, and what you'd add or change, please."
One of my neighbours or someone at their house is 10000% INSANE!!! It's almost 7am right now, and a few minutes ago a guy was screaming at the top of his lungs and seemed to be accusing someone of cheating saying things like "______ you're such a slut!!!" "Come and say it to my face!!!!!!". So I peaked out the window, and I see who I assume is the guy yelling go into the neighbours house, and a second later he comes out with a HUGE kitchen knife (wtf) and then he runs to the fence and STABS THE FENCE WITH THE KNIFE. Serious WTF, who gets so angry they stab fences with butcher knives???? And THEN it gets weirder guys. The yelling has stopped, and for some reason someone over their started blasting music first Barbie Girl and then the Macarena, yes, the effing Macarena, and the one with the knife was on the deck DANCING TO IT!!! This is not mentally stable behaviour, I wish I was making this up but it's seriously happening rightttt now.... I can still hear the Macarena going but its a lot quieter now, bloody hell!
The only reason why I don't think that happened is because there are multiple people over there, right now knife guy and another person are both out on the deck, and I would think that if knife guy actually tried to or successfully killed someone, he and a friend would not be chillin' on the deck blasting music.
Hopefully not! Watch, it's all some elaborate D&D session, the cheating was referring to dice roll, and someone's NPC girlfriend turned out to be the local tavern girl. And the fence was the boss monster
Oh the fence stabbing occurred before the music started. Music is still going, not sure the song because its quieter, but now there are two young men and a lady out there, no one seems interested in stabbing anymore so that's nice lol.
So my family and I have been in Florida for just over 24 hours and it was a really good day. My boyfriend and I spent a few hours on the beach, we decided to build a sandcastle and waves kept wrecking it so we also built a sand wall in front of it, which helped somewhat. It was fun!
5'8" is pretty tall for a lady. Plus being thin makes you seem even taller and I'm definitely thin. I'm actually trying to gain at least 10 lbs but I don't put on weight easily, I just have a predisposition to being thin which is fine but I'd be happy to at least gain back what I lost due to my acid reflux problems.