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VIGDIS___
People!!!!
April 15, 2014, 07:41:pm
Inbox me!!!! I want to chat :-D:-D:-D


pwetty pwease.

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friskyfox3
April 15, 2014, 02:08:pm
love how life throws random surprises ať u

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Goth_kitty13666

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April 16, 2014, 06:39:pm
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i wish it would for me...

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friskyfox3
April 12, 2014, 11:18:am
not seen fallenangel87 online for a
few days

hope he is ok

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Saebyeog

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April 12, 2014, 11:20:am
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Last logged in: April 12, 2014, 09:48am

Fallenangel87

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April 12, 2014, 01:51:pm
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Hey sorry i've had a chest infection for like 4 months now and it's just laid me low

friskyfox3

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April 12, 2014, 02:06:pm
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glad your kindá ok

Fallenangel87

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April 12, 2014, 02:07:pm
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Well i'm just taking it one day at a time

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friskyfox3
April 10, 2014, 12:46:pm
big massive hugs to my amazing máte
bamgothindisguise

say hi and rate him
he dont bite ( věry often )

Mood: devious

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---XxCrimson_ReignxX
Funny as fuck
April 09, 2014, 03:29:pm
http://vampirefreaks.com/playvideo?v=275741

Mood: Easily Entertained

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friskyfox3
April 09, 2014, 11:36:am
New job
New home

Hm what's missing

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Defiant65

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April 09, 2014, 12:02:pm
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Err.... A MAN?? :-)

Fallenangel87

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April 09, 2014, 01:43:pm
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Yep a man

graphiclolita

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April 09, 2014, 05:46:pm
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a maid

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friskyfox3
April 06, 2014, 04:01:pm
After four weeks lazing around I am back in the land of the employed people tomorrow

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xx_lost_freak_xx

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April 06, 2014, 04:28:pm
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Welcome back to the daily grind starting tomorrow. May it be a great start and peppy day at your new job!

Bloodwing_angel

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April 06, 2014, 04:38:pm
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no way that is epic. i start tomorrow too

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friskyfox3
April 05, 2014, 10:58:am
Its all coming together

Mood: fucking fantastic

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Fallenangel87

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April 05, 2014, 11:04:am
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it's always good when a plan comes together

Bloodwing_angel

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April 05, 2014, 01:38:pm
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thats brilliant

Earthchild

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April 05, 2014, 04:31:pm
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I had to re read that teehee

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-MissMorgue-
One year on
April 01, 2014, 04:25:pm
So, looking back it's almost a year ago since I posted a journal on here. It doesn't surprise me, I rarely use this site anymore and hardly ever respond to comments or messages, let alone feel the need to update my journal with my life story. But I actually think it's something I have an urge to do, even more so having read the last entry and realising how much has changed in the past year...

So, yes I passed my degree at the end of the summer which gave me a Masters in Global Criminology.

I decided that I liked living in the Netherlands so much so that I wanted to live here permanently, even after the degree had ended, but in order to do so, I needed a job...a good job. I also needed a job quick as the rent of my apartment was coming to an end and it was a case of booking the ferry back to the UK, or live on a friend's sofa for a few months until my money ran out and then booking the ferry.

Whether lady luck was on my side or I was just in the right place at the right time is still something I ponder every now and again, but I managed to land a job, a good job...quickly! Meaning my hopes of staying in the Netherlands just became real. I found a new place to live, started a new job and finished a Master's thesis all in the space of last summer. Now, to say that this was a stressful time would be an understatement; I must have truly wanted it badly, because the stress levels of that summer near enough killed me off. With all the shitty things which come with making such decisions: deposits, rental agents, tax, insurance, contracts, security checks, switching bank accounts, registering with the gemeente/ new doctor/ dentist blah blah. Ugh.

But I did it. And I'm glad I did it. Regardless of whether I reduced my life expectancy by about 10 years or not!

Looking back to this time last year, I suppose I could have only dreamed to be here now doing what i'm doing and living how I'm living. With a job which I like, working with people that I like, living in a city that I like, with an ever extending circle of friends who I have met mainly through gigs and the music scene here in the Netherlands, I think I can finally feel like I am "home" here.

The only thing which makes this whole reflective mood a bitter-sweet one is that this time last year I was looking forward to seeing a very special person. I would travel to Eindhoven to see him and spend weekends there. I used to get butterflies when I was on the train, smile like a fool whenever we'd text and feel completely and utterly comfortable in his company.

This special person was Selim.

Selim was someone who I had met in London the year or so before after The Devil's Blood played in Camden, and I knew from first meeting him that he was going to have some involvement in my life, or at least, I hoped our paths would somehow cross again, because he was THAT sort of spirit. It only took one meeting with him to know there was a deep-rooted spark somewhere. A spark of interest, intrigue, attraction, admiration and curiosity. I had no idea how or when though.

I am pleased to say our paths would cross again, in a more profound way than I could have ever imagined.
He made me laugh with silly humour or sayings, made me feel comforable in my own skin by just being himself: care-free, liberal-minded, not giving a fuck what others think (his house was like a perfect paradigm for a "do what thou wilt" ethos haha sex, drugs and rock n roll!). He made me contemplate and mentally explore my own philosophies on life, death and all that's in between. He enlightened me creatively by sharing his tastes in music, art, film and literature, as well as intellectually by telling me stories and sharing his experiences, or reciting things he had read or heard. He was also a passionate lover; he had this very wild, intoxicating fire to him, but he also was very intuitive and instinctual at the same time.

It is quite a powerful feeling to have so many levels of connection with a person and to be drawn to them across the spectrum of existence: physically, mentally, spiritually, sexually, emotionally, intellectually and creatively.

Selim made the transition between this world and the next last month.
He ended his life on March 4th.

I suppose with such a powerful spirit raging inside, it became too restless in this world of constant restraint. He needed to go. He wanted to go. And so he did.

I can't really verbalise how I felt when I heard. A little part of me, perhaps somewhere deep inside my brain, the "rational/ logical voice", knew this day would come eventually and that it wasn't really a matter of "if", but "when". And there was another little piece of me, perhaps in my "soul" or in the fibers of my skin, which knew it was for the best, it was the only way for such a spirit, and that being here on this earth was never going to fulfill him or allow him to be free. But there was also my heart; the "irrational/ emotive voice" which felt like it had been crushed, dropped to the bottom of my stomach and left aching and broken. I can truly say I think I know what it feels like to actually have your heart ache.

I was restless beyond anything I'd experienced before for the first few days. My eyes were puffed up and stung from the tears, my head was pounding from tension, lack of sleep and over-thinking. I couldn't focus on anything, work was impossible and the wallowing feeling of my own self-destruction/ neglect was overwhelming.
I gained a massive comfort from saying a proper good-bye to him at the funeral home. Seeing him, being able to sit with him for a while and hold his hand was comforting. The funeral was beautiful, I think he would have approved, apart from all the tears maybe! It was moving to see so many people there; family, friends, band members. The sun shone and the drinks went on til late.

I miss him so much. I think of him every day. I know it will become easier as time goes on, and that is one thing which is for certain: time goes on. My world came to a shattering halt, but the world...time and space, continues. It gives me comfort knowing that he chose this for himself, and that in the time he did spend on this earth, he touched so many people with some of the most beautiful, meaningful and inspiring music I have ever heard. And the music is immortal.
The big Selim-marked imprint which he has left on my life will never go away. The memories will stay forever. And for that I am truly thankful and grateful that I got to experience a little piece of such a special spirit.




Mood: Contemplative
Music: The Devil's Blood - Voodoo Dust

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X_Fallen_Dark_Angelx
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One year on
April 01, 2014, 05:43:pm
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My happiness is shared with you for this wonderful news on your degree! I'm happy to hear things are going well for you! However, my condolences are deep for you for your loss :-(

tyrAnt-

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One year on
April 03, 2014, 05:08:am
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I'm sorry for your loss. I never knew the guy personally, though I know people who were at some point in time ver close to him, but I'm sure the world has lost a great, if somewhat excentric thinker and a whole lot of creativity. Yet, I'm also positive time heals all wounds and you'll always have your intimate memories to reminisce by. And hope you'll do well and you thrive in the land of awful beer and arrogant fuckers. ;-)

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SatanicaDoll
Well...
March 30, 2014, 10:40:pm
I don't know if most of you know.. but my mother has cancer...
Id just like to let my vf friends that I am terribly sorry I haven't kept in touch.
Recently went to the doctors and found out that my mother isn't looking good at all.

Doctors say she doesn't have much time but things COULD turn around.. but its not a for sure thing.

So now, I say im sorry to those I haven't kept in contact with.. Dealing with a lot of stress at the moment..

But I do love ya. heart

Mood: Sad.

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friskyfox3
March 30, 2014, 03:54:pm
Feeling fat

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Bloodwing_angel

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March 30, 2014, 03:59:pm
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you aint fat beautiful heck yes but not fat

Fallenangel87

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March 30, 2014, 03:59:pm
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Don't be silly

Dravendaniel

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March 30, 2014, 04:49:pm
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[ Private ]

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friskyfox3
March 28, 2014, 10:57:am
Yay dance

After lots of fiddling I'm premium again

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Fallenangel87

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March 28, 2014, 10:57:am
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Lol good for u

Bloodwing_angel

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March 28, 2014, 11:02:am
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good for you :-)

OverTheSoundwaves

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March 28, 2014, 11:09:am
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woot!

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Luxurya
Resonances
March 28, 2014, 03:49:am
So... again i'm not here much... some updates...
I got rhinobronchitis and i'm currently sick again, my health is poor, that doesn't suprise me.
I'm in a bunch of stressful situation, but there's no point on complaining... i got depressed again as result. It's so easy lately...
Also i've not been paid at work in a month and a half, debts increasing so i'm lucky if i get a meal every day, usually i get some leftovers at night at my mother's house, eating nothing but water or tea the rest of the day, when i'm not sick i'm doing some excersise every morning so i was starting to recover my old strenght. My computer at home died, so i only get on at the phone or at work... what else...

I guess that's all, also i have my first t-shirt produced, now aviable worldwide :P and i'm working already on the next ones.
Something have to turn right, and i can't stop moving... only the dead remain still...

My t-shirt: https://www.kichink.com/buy/136672/pandora/lucky-animaventus#.UzUpcc5MgTA

Mood: meh
Music: if i was

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