In case you haven't noticed, I'm not nearly as active on here as I usually am here these past few weeks. My new job recently started (I work 7pm-7am) so much of my life is now controlled by sleeping and working. And on my days off, I'm busy in the process of moving and starting a new life. Once everything settles down, I promise I'll be back on just as much, if not moreso, than before
I miss talking to a lot of you, and gods help me I miss reading the drama. It gave my life a lot of amusement when there wasn't too much to be found elsewhere.
But like I said, after I move in and settle, I'll be able to frequent this site again. Thanks for being patient, guys!
There's a reason I'm the pony of Generosity. I may be cold, but I go above and beyond for the few people I do care about. I'm more than happy to lend/give money, my assistance, and most anything else to my friends, and even total strangers. I've seen enough people get pushed aside to know that people like me aren't as common as they should be.
Those who take my generosity for granted are also those who quickly lose me as a friend. I don't expect much back for my kindness - just that you don't kick me to the curb when it's all said and done. I'm not a doormat to be walked all over, and just because I don't show you that I'm upset, doesn't mean that I've forgiven or forgotten.
I honestly take great joy in being the generous one, and I hope that maybe you could do something nice for someone today.
I've been getting a lot of inbox messages lately. And I wish I had the time to sit down and respond to them all - but I don't right now. If I haven't responded to you, it's nothing personal; I haven't responded to anyone for a while.
There's been a lot of things going on that require immediate attention, and VF isn't one of them. Plus with my new job starting up here in a couple weeks, I'm going to be even more busy soon. It's going to be tiring, but when I get my new place and new job, everything is going to settle down, then I can respond to everyone and catch up. I miss always being on here, haha.
Thanks for being patient, guys - I really appreciate it.
So I joined this tattoo forum on a different social network. People were posting these awesome tattoos on there arms, legs, chest, and neck. Then one guy posts a picture of a tattoo on his butt cheek. My god I could not help myself I though it was so funny. Ah too great. All these tattoos and then a tattooed ass cheek Bwaa ha ha
Hi guys and girls, Sorry I have been not around as late. Let me explain myself. On the 12th of January I drove into a "micro Climate" which creates the conditions similar to black ice. My car wouldn't break and I ended up heading in to the other lane, being hit by a 4x4 and bouncing into another car. My car was concertina'd, it was only a just a little Mazda from the early 90's with no power steering or Air bags and had a bloody tape deck but I miss it so much! Booo. Anyway this led to me being hospitalised for ages. I was suffering from broken hips, ribs and a coma inducing brain bleed leaving me with no memory of the crash or much of anything else when i finally woke up. They called it post traumatic amnesia but if i was me enough to feel pissed off about the crash and bored in hospital I must have been in my head somewhere haha. Long story short I got out end of March after I nagged and played up in hosiptal enough they agreed to release me haha, they kept giving me test after test to try and see if I was "safe" to released, I even had to show I could make a cup of tea safely lol. So from then I have been concentrating on relearning my dance routines (all forgotten) getting my fitness back, rediscovering my favorite bands and re building my self employed dance business from scratch (which sucked balls). Happy to say now that Dance classes are booming with lots of gigs, I can mostly remember how to get around town (though I don't drive as fast as I did)and I am pretty much back to my old self. So, there ya go. Hello again.
Kinda confused...have quite a few friends who complian about being single. Yet have people they have sexual relations with that they just sleep with....why??
Why sleep with someone or lead a person on when you have no intention of going further. That's just mean especially when one the people they sleep with actually wants to be with them.
Coming up with excuses to not be with that person yet there good enough for sex? I don't get it your already sleeping with the person might as well make it official.
Then they come to me and complain about being single and not being able to find the right person. They want to be friends with the person a long time before getting serious.
Maybe I need more friends that are girls. Ha. Don't understand my guy friends.
Realization a lot of my guy friends are dicks.
Ex. My friend Tom has been in a "sex buddy" thing with the same girl for months yet won't date her. She likes him she wants more and asked him to date her and he says no. Wtf? Talked to him about it and he just said she's not someone he wants to be with...then why keep her around as a bang. I know this women could leave the situation anytime but won't.
So don't understand? Kind of feel sorry for her.
So yesterday was total shit. From the moment I got up to after I get home from work at 10:30pm, it was just failure after fail after fail. I would rant about all if it, but I like not having Carpal Tunnel.
Anyways, just now I got a call from the place I applied a few days ago (just a factory - but they hire at 11.75 with 12hr shifts and about 4/5 days a week). I'm pretty sure I got the job (praise jebus) because I've already been called back for testing, an interview, drug screening, and - just now - a physical. They can't say in hired for sure until I pass the physical.
Well, go figure that my glasses broke last night, and I don't have any contacts. I won't be able to make it to the eye doctor to get new glasses and my eyes checked until next Friday unless someone cancels - which means I can't even go in for the physical until after that. Ugh I told the last who called and she said that's just fine, and to let her know when I get my glasses/contacts.
It hurts to keep my eyes open too long, and especially to stare at this screen, so I probably won't be doing too much on here until I get my eyes checked again - just so you guys know.
Damnit, why do things have to be so shitty lately? What did I do wrong???
In other news, check out this badass jacket I bought myself :3
It's hard sometimes to stay positive and determined, and I've gotten close to quitting my job or just giving up altogether; but I keep at it because I think of just how close I am to my goals. Thank you for helping me out, Master you DO make everything better
And the heavens opened up and god said let there be penises. And there were penises. And God saw the penis. And the penis was good. And so god made woman from man. But woman said that thing is gross I'm good. None for me thanks
The longer I stay on the site, the worse it becomes. The people are more judgemental and immature than ever, the admins either ignore issues completely or they enforce based on personal bias instead of actually doing their jobs and keeping things fair between members.
I've been a member since '08, and I fell in love that first day. But lately I've been wondering if my run will finally come to an end in 2014. Like I said, I'm in love with the site; but that love is diminishing and I'm hardly feeling the need to do anything on here anymore. More than anything it's become my own personal tumblr so I have somewhere to store my pics (if they don't get deleted without reason)
There have been a lot of cool people that I've met in this site over the years, and I will remember them for a long time. I would like to keep in contact with a good deal of them if I were to ever leave the site.
This isn't an announcement of my leaving Vampirefreaks, just me contemplating my future on the site. Should I stick around on this site that's basically become a part of my life? Or is it better to get out now before it gets any worse?
Except VF is more lenient than Omeegle. If you don't want to talk to someone, you can just block them. If it's that severe, an admin on here can ban your IP.oAs for the chatrooms, if someone is viewing your cam, and you don't want them on there anymore, you can kick them off your cam. You also have the ability to accept/deny their requests.
I dont do omegle. And yeah, its a problem everywhere, however this site never used to be as bad as it is now, and its gotten to the point where it actually discourages people from sticking around or joining alltogether.I'm on and off now, actually. Mainly because finding people to talk to on here is so ridiculously hard nowdays. Not everybody leaves, obviously, but the activity DID drop significantly ever since all the sex-maniacs started to pour in like an endless flood of (very likely) diseased, nymphomaniac animals with loose morals and no self control whatsoever. Im still on here because as sad as it sounds, at the current moment in life, this is my only way to socialize with anyone. I live in buttfuck nowhere, where there is no culture, nevermind an alternative sub-anything. ..Well that and I have been on here since '08. Those I did meet through here have had a hell of an impact on my life. Can't help but feel attached to this place still. The black background certainly helps though. Love black. With more sites had the option to make it look this way.
I don't have a problem with the new VF layout. It's way better on my tablet than it used to be. I like that it's more optimised for touch-screens, which is good. If a social site can't get with the times, it's bad marketing Lol.
^Im guessing thats why they changed it. Lol. It could have done better, really. Though looking at it now, its better than when they first customized it. Back then it just screamed "myspace" at you. That was... prettyy bad..
Holiday is over and I'm back to work. I had amazing week and a half off. I got lots done at home but I also got my well deserved rest. Also the house warming party is now out of the way. But reality is a bitch and I'm back to the routines. As soon as I went back to work, I felt like I never even left that place. I best book more time off soon!
Pastel and ombre dyed hair are more accepted in normal stores these days If you really want go up like lawyer or work for a bank they ask to tone it down. Main reason I always tell people think about before you get tattoos or do drastic things on your body. Jobs and future are more important. :') is the girl talking with bright purple / red hair and tattoos
Depends really. You can have a job and a future somewhere that accepts such things. Its just a matter of whether or not your freedom of individuality and thought is important enough for you to do extra work looking for a place that does accept these things. Or if you rather bend over and take it.
Nivram, they do that here as well. But they cant tell you or other people that your hair was the issue. I dont think that they can even discuss it within themselves, that could be a firing issue. For them. On the inside.
I discovered my Licorices (RIP) blanket. It's been around but now I finally picked it up to cuddle it. Even though it was washed after he died, it still has his smell. That is the blanket he was laying on all the time after the cancer got the best of him. That's where he spent his last moments too. I've been holding it and it just brings back all the memories. From the days he was still well to the days he needed constant care. And the moment when I had to let him go. How I collapsed when he took his last breath and stopped purring at me and let go of my finger. It's been over 6 months and I feel like I still haven't got over his death even I know it was for the best. I miss him so much. I hope I'll meet him again some day.