Zombiesk8r
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wrote on
February 11, 2012, 06:19am
Unacheivable...
So one thing that will never change about me, is my addiction to sex.
I've been having sex since I was 13...
I've been very depressed lately because I constantly get rejected by my girlfriend.
For example:
We'd be alone in my room. We talk about something... Then out of nowhere I grab her tits and make-out with her, which leads to sex but she says no.
For example:
Nobody is around, and I want to mess around.... She says no.
Don't get me wrong... She's willing to have sex with me..... But she rejects me a lot and it's not her fault, she just feels uncomfortable :P
I want to shrug it off, but I can't because it's eating me inside and my self-esteem / confidence is lowering more and more every time this happens to me (about everytime i see her which is once a week).
We've been together for a year and 2 months.
But I don't know what to do.... I can't convince her to have sex with me whenever I want her to... That's too demanding and I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable or forced... I respect her wishes but it costs me my own happiness.
I love this girl, but I hurt everyday knowing it'll only happen again...
What should I do?
Should I break up with her... But it wouldn't be fair.....
Sigh....
I'm stuck at the bottom :P
Mood: Depressed Music: Seisend.six - Lost in SPace
Well, maybe she feels like she needs some space. I never like it when a guy I like (dating or not) randomly wants to f*ck me. I like it when the mood is right and I feel comfortable (like, no interuptions lol!) I've been through A LOT of bad relationships and only 2 partners so far. But maybe sit down and talk with her about it. Tell her how you feel. And she will most likely give you the answer you're looking for. Hope that helps a little. xx
Talk to her first. Then maybe instead of just grabbing her, maybe take it easy and get her in the mood first. You could ask her if that's what she wants or find out if it's something different that's is causing her to be like that when you talk to her, tell her how you feel and how it's making you feel, rejection absolutely causes your self-esteem and confidence to lower and that can REALLY eat at you and cause very serious problems. I've been through it.
Some guys are like this too and need to be warmed up with like lots of kissing or massaging that gets them in the mood first. The last guy I went out with was like that with warming up...good thing he was the best kisser I've ever been with. lol I could kiss him for two hours and be happy. Man I miss that boy!
Sorry you're depressed about it, I know how that is for sure. xXx Hope everything works out for you.
Dani
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"She rides a dark horse and she and the horse are one."
