Dec 01, 2017, 10:52pm
So, I just got out of a relationship that was fairly terrible, to say the least.
He and I used to live here at my grandparents house and then moved out about two weeks before we broke up.
Today, I was going to move my dressers and filing cabinet around in my room....well, when I started moving them, I found paper towels that literally had actual poop on them....so, I threw them away, but am absolutely furious about the findings of them. I'm literally sickened by this. Like, how sick does one person have to be???
I've never experienced something so freaking disgusting. I was never even aware of that going on and can't even figure out when he would have done it other than while I was asleep or at work. I can't even figure out why.
Like, when we lived here, he always felt that my grandparents didn't like him, so he would try to avoid going near them. Which, he wasn't wrong. At the end, they really didn't like him and only tolerated him for me. They knew he was putting his hands on me abusively and knew how he was with me, so he really was right for that. And to avoid dealing with them, he would pee in old juice containers or water bottles...and at one point, just right out the window....but to find paper towels like that just sickens me. I never expected that!
Should I retaliate, though? I'm really having trouble deciding what the right thing would be to do here..