What is anger? Physically and biochemically speaking, anger is an adrenal glandular hormonal response that prepares the body to fight or run away. In other words, it is a body response that is a type of minor fight-or-flight response that prepares the body to actually fight or run from a perceived threat or attack. Thus, becoming angry has similar effects on the body as does fighting or running away. The blood pressure rises, and the blood glucose or sugar level rises, along with insulin, to move more “fuel” into the muscles in preparation for a fight. Also, blood is shunted away from the digestive and eliminative organs. Instead, it is shunted to the head or brain, and to the muscles, again for the purpose of preparing the body for a fight. This is fine in an emergency, and that is what it is for. However, when it becomes a common occurrence or worse, a lifestyle, it takes a toll on one’s health, which is why the subject of anger is so important to discuss openly and honestly. oh and this is not opininion its real studies LACK OF UNDERSTANDING OF MEN Many women do not understand that men are somewhat biologically %u201Cprogrammed%u201D to stare at their breasts and other areas, and that most men have a lot of trouble changing this programmed behavior. Hating men for it won%u2019t change it. Also, some women do not realize that men are also biologically programmed to reproduce. Also, women need to understand that most men do not know what love is about, and they confuse sexual desire with love. This is unfortunate, but many women turn around and hate men for it, when this is not the solution. The solution is to understand biological programming. Then women will keep their bodies well-covered up and avoid tight clothing, lots of makeup, sexy outfits, flirting and other things women do. This will reduce the ways that women tempt men to %u201Cfall%u201D for them, which in turn often makes women angry. BIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN These play a role in the problem of women%u2019s anger as well. They include: Higher copper and lower zinc. Women have higher copper levels and lower zinc levels than men. Copper enhances ALL the emotions, including anger. In addition, many girls and women today are copper toxic. In other words, they are overloaded with copper. It begins with getting too much copper in utero from their copper-toxic mothers, today. It is made much worse by vaccines, medical drugs, especially antibiotics, poor quality and deficient diets, vegetarian-leaning diets, and later by the use of some birth control devices that increase copper such as the pill, the patch and the copper or pill IUD. For much more on copper, read Copper Toxicity Syndrome on this website. HIGHER INTELLIGENCE AND SPIRITUAL DEVELOPMENT Many women are very intelligent and are extremely angry because they can see the truth about life around them better than their peers, especially their male peers. They handle this higher awareness or understanding by becoming angry with men and with the world, instead of reaching out, or at least having compassion for those who are less aware and less intelligent than themselves. Some of these very aware young women ignore their own insights and wisdom. Instead, they %u201Cgo with friends%u201D who are less aware in order to be accepted or liked. However, their sensitivity and intelligence remains, and can lead to terrific anger as they watch others behave in irrational, immature, stupid or dangerous ways. Others withdraw and just stew in their own anger, and often turn it inward, where it becomes depression. Still others speak out, but it is often with anger and rage, which is also not helpful and makes them worse. The problem of the more intelligent and more spiritually aware young girls and women is probably the saddest plight. They are the most wonderful young people, whom one wishes to nourish and encourage in their quest for truth and real love. Unhappily, they are often found in dysfunctional homes so the parent do not understand them, they have few good friends, and little contact with spiritually-minded adults who can guide them properly. Religious schooling or church attendance may help, but may not be enough. They really need a different kind of education, different friends, and adults around them who have a clear head and can see their potential and at least commiserate with them that, yes, most people in the world are very immature, very silly, and often live crazy, dangerous and insane lifestyles. If they had this, they would likely relax and just focus on their own lives and careers without as much anger. FATHERS AND OLDER BROTHERS DID NOT KNOW HOW TO LOVE THEM PROPERLY Not loving a young girl properly is very common. Here some may disagree, but I believe that all women want and require the love of a mature, detached, non-sexually involved man in their life. It is a fatherly love that they crave. It is basically the love of the Creator or God, but in human form. Men, of course, need this, too. Women also want and need an excellent role model so they can grow up properly centered and relaxed, and then they will seek out and be able to identify the right man to marry or mate with so they will remain safe, relaxed and centered. When father or older brother does not provide this role model, young girls become very angry, and it gets worse if they later marry men who are like their father or older brothers. Many different scenarios of improper love for a daughter are possible, such as: · Spoiling the child. This is usually due to sexual games, or simple immaturity on the part of the father, or some other kind of ego interplay with the daughter or with the wife, perhaps. · Father loves his daughter so much he fears harming her in some way, so he avoids loving contact with her. This occurs quite often, in fact, especially if the mother is loving, so the father defers to her for giving the girl hugs and so on. This, I contend, is a big mistake. Girls need the love of a father as well, as it is quite different in effect and feeling from the love of the mother. · Unavailable in some way. Sometimes the father must be absent for work. At other times, the father is simply emotionally cold or uneducated as to how to express feeling and say the right things, so he feels awkward and withdraws. Sometimes a father is so intimidated by his wife that he just gives up and lives in his own world, allowing mother to raise the children. This is also common and harms the daughters a lot. Some men simply do not relate well to women, due to their own unresolved and unforgiven traumas. This can affect a young girl who cannot understand why her father is distant, or mean, or acts strangely in some way. · Resentment of Dad by mother that is either taught to the daughter, or the daughter just copies it, distances the daughter from her father. This is also extremely common. She wakes up too late, often, to realize what she or her mother have done to her and how much she misses the love of her father that was, in fact, there for her. This is a common and sad refrain found in middle-aged women who have often had unhappy marriages and cannot figure out why. · Father may be a bad example %u2013 perhaps alcoholic, or a poor provider, or perhaps the cheating type. This can cause tremendous anger in a daughter. It can turn to hatred that separates the daughter from her father. · Lack of gentleness, or knowledge of how to handle a child. Some men simply do not know how to treat a daughter. This goes for some mothers as well. Women, however, tend to be a little gentler than men, which the children need, especially at a young age. · Some men do not like having children around, and this can be felt by the children easily. If a man does not like children, he should not have them. The same is true of women, of course. Fathers who physically or emotionally abuse their children, or vampirize them. Other. For example, some fathers really wanted a boy, so they take it out on the girl child and perhaps even try to make her into his baseball partner or golf companion. Such aberrations are not uncommon and represent areas of immaturity on the fathers part so girls dont pute on your profile i dont like perps and thing like that if you are almost naked on the pics:P thats just weird psycho!!!!
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to read the dislikes from people when they all hated the same things sheeps you have so much in the metal goth emo punk alternative scen i am sorry if you al feel special but your not. and i really hated my childhood.and my present .