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At the top "Om" symbol. Bottom is the Gayatri Mantra from the Declaration of Arbroath 1320 Sadly, I cut them, but they are growing back.

Sex: male
Age: 69
Location: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Orientation: Pansexual
Member since: July 01, 2004
Last logged in: Invisible
Status: In an open relationship
Occupation: Poet-skank-warlord
Account Status: Free Account

Profile:
UPDATE NOV. 27 - GOING TO LOUISIANA, AND POSSIBLY TEXAS AND MEXICO IN JANUARY :)

Thanks for dropping by. I have, however, decided to minimise my use of vf, as it has tried to out-mainstream the mainstream. I have been able to tolerate the increasing percentage of the profiles on the site that are emo and scene. After all, they are slightly more bearable than wiggers and the like.

However, attempts by the admins here to impose a higher age of consent than even the one imposed by Canadian law and by other mainstream sites, indicates to me that they have succumbed to the slings and arrows of the mainstream media.

I absolutely will not have my love life micro-managed by people living in their parents' basement and whose only meagre accomplishment in life is to be a volunteer admin on vf. I would paraphrase an old adage to say that "Those who can't do, censor those who can." :)

If you want to see more pictures, I will give you my myspace or gonegothic profile url. For those of you who know me personally and for those of you who have yet to experience my eccentricity, sarcastic wit, over-the-top political views, and complete Domination of willing women, you can still find me hanging out online at:

Shadows of Toronto I own and organise the website Shadows of Toronto, a group of Goths and other darkness lovers that originated on meetup.com. The url is www.shadowsoftoronto.com/forum and new members are always welcome. There I (and you) will not be subject to the administrative excesses of those who pose as being outside the mainstream.

Imperium Noctis
At the request of some of my friends on Shadows of Toronto, I recently established this private society for:
  • Gothic and Gothish girls who want to learn the proper protocols of submission to a Dominant male
  • a small number of my guy friends who want to master and use (not abuse) the art of Domination.
If the first group describes you, let me know and, if I like you, I will train you.

Band
I am giving some thought to putting together a Goth-girl band. I have the good fortune to know a lot of beautiful, artistic Gothic girls, and I like to organise things; so, it seems to be a logical fit. If you do vocals or drums, let me know. I am toying also with the idea of throwing in a couple of non-traditional instruments; so, if you are a cello player or something, do not be shy to mention it.

A bit more about me (and more fodder for the haters)
To begin with, I am not an uber-Goth. In fact, I would be the first to label myself a Goth poseur. I have none of the attributes valued by the uber-Goth: no piercings and only two tattoos (though many more are planned), nor am I pagan/wiccan, nor can I recite a long list of industrial bands or identify their songs.

I am polygynous, which means that I sometimes have more than one gf (but they are monogamous, hence polygyny vs. the more general polyamoury). Don't approve of it? Once again....bite me.

Here are some of the attributes I find most attractive in a girl:
  • Gothic or Goth-friendly
  • appropriately submissive
  • intellectual and able to stimulate my brain, not just my libido
  • completely honest, loyal, and faithful
  • pretty (and I am not a size-ist; there are several body types I like)
It is also preferable, but not necessary, that she be:
  • vegetarian or vegan
  • pro-life


Mind stuff
If you have an interest in politics, religion, or other cerebral topics, that makes you an even better potential partner. I LOVE to discuss issues for hours over a soya latte or Vietnamese coffee. Politically, I am riddled with seeming contradictions. I am an anomaly: conservative and Gothish. Yes, I am slightly to the right of Attila the Hun on most issues. So, if you are liberal, socialist, feminist, pro-abortion, anti-gun, or anti-capital-punishment, that is fine, but do not bother engaging me in conversation if you cannot abide the opposite viewpoint.
I am a vegetarian, but I do not judge people who do eat meat (unless it is veal ... that is someone's baby). I do judge people who wear fur. It belongs on the animal from whom it was ripped, not on your sorry ass.

My...adult interests
D/s, BDSM - the former in the extreme. Enquire as to details.

The age thing
The age I listed above is bogus (or is it?). Do us both a favour and do not even ASK. If you need to know, you are not old enough (or are too immature) to be wasting my time.
Whatever age is most offensive to you ... think of me as being 5 years older than that. I am busy and do not have any time for - or interest in - ageists.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/ageist
(For those who watch too much U.S. television: the age of consent in Canada is 16, not 18. I will date anyone I like between 16 and 116. That offends your sense of morality or your attempts to bend over for the mainstream? ... Bite me.)

My sexuality is straight, gay, or bi, whichever turns you on the least.

MSN
Regarding MSN ... just to avoid any misunderstanding, hurt feelings, or wasted time: I will only give you my msn if you are single and if I see something in you that makes me want to date you. My MSN time is not for chatbuddies, penpals, or for me to entertain you with an explanation of my lifestyle. I am on MSN primarily to talk to past, current, and future gfs. If that does not fit your view of what MSN is for, too bad - so sad.

Being my friend or gf is not for everyone, particularly the faint of heart. There are hundreds of guys on here who are much more vanilla than I am. I am too far outside the mainstream for most girls, even most Gothic girls.

Counters
Counters
  • Chocolate soya milk.
  • Veggie bacon.
  • Mashed potatoes and gravy.
  • Chinese food.
  • Going for coffee with intelligent people.
  • Curling up with a nice girl to watch a movie.
  • Clubbing with pretty people, at Velvet, Neutral, or Funhaus.
  • Bondage, S&M (just the "S" part though)
  • Guns.
  • Politics, even if we disagree (respectfully).
  • Capitalism.
  • Freedom.
  • New Orleans
  • Fairuza Balk, Scarlett Johannson, Jeri Ryan, Jolene Blalock.
  • Movies: Underworld, Butterfly Effect, Dark City, LOTR, Matrix, Hunt for Red October, Equilibrium, The Fifth Element, Constantine, Gattaca, V for Vendetta, 300 (bonus marks for butchery and political INcorrectness), Eyes Wide Shut, Se7en, Eternal.
  • Books: The Chronicles of Narnia (years before the movie came out), Animal Farm, 1984

Dislikes:
  • Rap, reggae, soca, calypso, hip hop.
  • Fur...it's not YOUR skin.
  • ABORTION....inconvenience does not justify murdering a baby as she slumbers in her mother's womb.
  • People who judge me.
  • Wiggers and preps.
  • Bondage wannabes. SUBMISSION POSEURS.
  • Uber-Goths, and their polar opposite: Goth apologists.
  • People who bash religion...seems to be the last acceptable form of bigotry.
  • Apples, raw vegetables.
  • Oceans 12...worst movie EVER.
  • Socialism...stop taxing me and get a fucking job.
  • Feminism
  • Gun control
  • Islamic fascism
  • Liars (non-disclosure is almost as bad)
  • Cheaters (yes there IS a difference between polyamoury and cheating...duh)

Favorite Music:
  • RAMMSTEIN
  • Manson
  • E Nomine
  • Scorpions
  • Ozzy Osbourne
  • Kiss
  • Avril Lavigne (yes, get over it)

But I am not restricted to the darker genres. Depending on my mood and the company, I can enjoy everything from retro 80s, to 90s pop, to swing, to opera, to classical. Favourite song ever is not even from the industrial/Goth genre...it's "Beyond the Sea" from Bobby Darin.
The only music I can NOT abide is the various jungle beats...rap, hip hop, reggae, calypso, soca, etc.
Homepage: http://www.shadowsoftoronto.com/forum
Link 1: http://www.nrlc.org/abortion/pba/diagram.html

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