WELCOME TO THE BDSM ACADEMY
This cult is primarily for education in the world of BDSM. You will learn about the lifestyle, the scene, etiquette and much more. We are here to help those in the learning process, whether they are a novice or an expert in the lifestyle.
This cult like a school of sorts complete with playground (or the dungeon, lol).
OWNER
ScarlettVamp
CO-OWNER
Mistress Chey
ADMINS
MissBridgett
MODS
ShadowsHeir
KillerCanine
The BDSM Academy is 18+ and MEMBERSHIP BY APPROVAL ONLY!! When you apply, you MUST list the following information:
-Name
-Age(you MUST be 18+ to join)
-If you are Master/Mistress, Dom(me), Sub/Slave
-Current BDSM related cults you are in
-Who referred you, if applicable
If you DO NOT include ALL the information in the above list, your application WILL BE DENIED.
First and foremost, NO DRAMA!
Respect the staff
Keep threads on topic
Adhere to VF Site rules
More will be added soon
DOM(ME)/MASTER/MISTRESS CREED
-Above all else a Dom/me cherishes Their submissive, in the knowledge that the gift the submissive gives Them is the greatest gift of all.
-A Dom/me is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Them, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
-A Dom/me is in control of Themself first and foremost, so that They may control others. As a stern and demanding Dom/me, They can cause Their submissive to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, They will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
-In times of trouble, a Dom/me will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
-A Dom/me is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
-A Dom/me would never asks a submissive to put Them before their career, or family, just to satisfy Their own pleasure.
-To win a submissive's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, a Dom/me knows They must first win their trust.
-A Dom/me will show Their submissive humour, kindness, and warmth.
-A Dom/me must always show them that Their guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of their attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust Their direction.
-A Dom/me is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, They will fight for Their submissive's honour.
-A Dom/me proves to their submissive that They are someone they can lean on, and depend on. When it comes time to teach Their submissive their lessons of obedience, They are a strong and unyielding professor.
-A Dom/me will accept no flaw. Nothing less than perfection from Their student.
-Never does a Dom/me use discipline without a good reason. When They do punish Their submissive, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
-A Dom/me is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear Their submissive's wants and needs. A Dom/me is patient; taking time to learn Their submissive's limits, and knowing that as their trust of Them grows, so will they.
-A Dom/me never has to demand ritual behavior from Their submissive. Their submissive responds to Them out of the want of pleasing Them. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.
-A Dom/me understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Them.
-A Dom/me is secure enough to laugh at Themself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow.
-A Dom/me's tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love.
-A Dom/me understands that E/each partner gains most from pleasuring the O/other.
And B/both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.
SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE CREED
-I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and emotional harm.
-I will not try to manipulate my Master. I will not push to make a scene go the way I feel it should. I will keep an open mind about trying things that I am not accustomed to or comfortable with and expanding my limits.
-I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being. I will accept the responsibility of discovering what pleases my Master, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
-I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused, I know that submissive does not equal "doormat".
-I will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives, I will share my knowledge and experiences with others in the hope that they will learn from where I have been I will take the time to help those new to the scene start out on the correct path.
-I will be responsive to my Master, I will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that I may assist Him in His responsibilities as my Authority, I know that Dominants are not telepathists, and will not expect my Master to know thought or feelings which I do not share.
-I will never think myself a "better" submissive because I choose to submitt on a different level than another. I will not be boastful of experiences I have had as a sub. I know that my actions reflect upon my Master, and will do my best to help others see him in a positive way, I will not intentionally embarress or displease my Master.
-Above all, I will wear my title of submissive with honor, I will never cause others to think that being submissive means to be weak or sub~human. I will take pride in who and what I am, and will never show myself in a negative way.
FETISH LIST
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ABRASION: or surface play with abrasive materials. Rabbit fur, rough silk, chamois leather, fine sandpaper, assorted brushes and wire wool are just a few samples of some very effectives items to enhance the body sensations of a blindfolded bottom.
ADULT BABIES: Mainly refer to those who gain satisfaction from dressing up in infants' clothing and using associated objects like dummies and cribs; may also indicate those who enjoy elaborate role-playing scenes in which they act out the part of a baby as fully as possible. AGE PLAY: a common variant of role-play in which the top becomes the Daddy or Mommy and the bottom child-like. people.
ATOCALCIPHILIA: fetish for high heels.
ANIMAL TRAINING: Play scenes where the bottom usually takes on the role of an animal.
ASPHYXIAPHILIA: auto-erotic asphyxiation (if solo play). Games involving control or restriction of air and/or the supply of oxygen to the brain.
ASSPLAY: next to the clitoris, the asshole contains the largest number of nerve endings on a female body. For males the prostate is an extremely sexually arousing gland on the male body. Inserting dildos fisting, fucking and douching can be very stimulating forms of ass play. Hygiene should always be a main consideration with this type of play.
BALL TORTURE: Ball Torture (BT) refers to a range of techniques to cause sensation, discomfort and pain in the male testicles and scrotum.
BASTINADO: Form of torture or punishment involving beating the soles of the feet.
BRANDING: Making a permanent or semi-permanent scar on the skin by burning it with a heated metal object, as practiced on livestock and in earlier times on slaves and criminals.
BROWN SHOWERS (BS): using feces (scat) in an erotic context.
C&B or CBT: cock and ball torture; intense stimulation of the male genitals more often associated with pain, bondage, and endurance. See ball torture and cock torture.
CANING: use of a cane, a flexible rod.
CHASTITY: banning or physically preventing someone from achieving orgasm or even any form of genital stimulation in the long term, usually as a means of asserting domination.
COCK TORTURE: in the SM context means causing intense stimulation, discomfort or pain to the penis, usually including the foreskin, if present, using hands and any number of improvised or purpose-made devices.
CORPORAL PUNISHMENT/CP: In an SM context, normally refers to the activities of caning, whipping and spanking. This term often implies some form of role-playing in which the bottom is 'punished'.
CROSS DRESSING: Dressing in clothing usually worn by the opposite sex.
CUNT TORTURE: Any form of intense stimulation or pain inflicted on the female genitals: perhaps by abrasion, clips and clamps, electricity, temperature play, play piercing, gentle whipping and flogging and with nails and hands.
DOUCHING: From the French douche, 'shower', in a sexual context this means injecting liquid, usually water, under pressure into the ass or cunt, either for hygiene purposes prior to sex, for contraceptive purposes afterwards (not terribly reliable), or as a sexual thrill in itself.
EDGE PLAY: Pushing a limit or playing near a limit
FACE FUCKING: a particularly intense form of fellatio.
FEARPLAY: achieved, say, by threatening the bottom with a knife.
FISTING: insertion of hand or large part of hand into rectal, vaginal or oral cavity. Fist fucking, FF, handballing. Placing or attempting to place the whole hand (or even both hands) into the rectum or vagina.
FLAGELLATION: SM-related whipping, beating and spanking for erotic stimulation.
GENTITORTURE: Sometimes used as a general term for pain games involving the genitals.
GOLDEN SHOWERS (GS): playing with urine for erotic purposes.
HEAVY PLAY: sophisticated or advanced activities or techniques used for psychological or physical stimulation that require special training for safety reasons, e.g. breath control, cutting, temporary and/or permanent piercing, branding, burning, electroplay: also play that is very intense physically and / or psychologically, as very intense pain, or very intense surrender.
HUMILIATION: deliberate ego reduction for consensual erotic purposes, ranging from mild embarrassment to degradation; may be physical and/or psychological.
HYPOXYPHILIA: sexual arousal from the limiting or withholding of oxygen.
ICE: Ice can be used on external body parts, external genitalia, or even internal genitalia if care is taken. Ice can quickly sensitize affected body parts, or numb them slightly. Ice can even be used to intensify an orgasm in either sex.
IMMOBILIZATION: rendering a bottom helpless by completely restricting movement through bondage.
INFANTILISM: eroticisation of being treated (or treating someone else) as a baby or a toddler.
INFIBULATION: Fastening of the genitals to prevent intercourse or even sometimes arousal, as in chastity games, usually achieved by piercing or suturing (sewing).
KLISMAPHILIA: The obtaining of sexual enjoyment from enemas. See douching.
KNIFE PLAY: Knives as scene implements typically impart fear, pain, control, and sometimes blood. In general, the term knife play does not involve the intentional drawing of blood.
LIFESTYLE or 24/7: BDSM full-time (also called lifestyle or 24/7).
MEDICAL: Scene involving some form of medical procedure or scenario, perhaps with the top playing the role of a doctor or nurse and the bottom a patient, scenes, examinations, procedures, and/or equipment such as uniforms, rectal thermometer, catheters and sounds.
MUMMIFICATION: A specialized kind of bondage in which the whole body, including the head if some form of breathing tube is used, is wrapped tightly using materials like cling film (saran wrap) and gaffa tape, cloth or latex bandages until the bottom is completely immobilized.
NIPPLE TORTURE-NT: nipple torture, or intense stimulation of the nipples.
PIERCING: Piercing is a way of ornamenting the body in other places than the ear with jewelry. There are two basic types: permanent piercing, sometimes called ringing, and play or temporary piercing.
RESTRICTION: Restriction is a style of domination where the sub is restricted in movement. Restriction can be enforced with restraining devices, such as ropes, or merely words. Restricting the movement of a sub is a widely used training technique.
RETIFISM: The fetish for boots and shoes.
RIMMING: Giving a rimjob. Mouth contact with the asshole, including insertion of the tongue inside it.
ROLE PLAY: using some standardized elements, such as a teacher with a student, a doctor with a patient, an interrogator with a spy, a pet with an owner, etc.
SENSORY DEPRAVATION: using blindfolds, gags, earplugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses.
SERVICE: doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of obedience, respect, submission, devotion, love, etc.
VERBAL DOMINATION: This style of domination is not as direct as other methods of domination, but is a style in its own right. Verbal domination is control using words and speech to effect a change in the sub.
WATERSPORTS: this is a slang term for the practice of passing bladder fluid in order to enhance sexual intimacy, or in other words, erotic peeing.
WAX: Candle wax, dripped onto sensitive body areas, such as the nipples, chest, or groin
