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Created on: December 17, 2014

All About Espoir

Upon joining Espoir, you'll have immediate access to daily challenges, motivational messages, self-help threads, emergency contact numbers and a group of people that are waiting and willing to aid you in any way they can. What is it that really makes Espoir so great, though? It's the fact that we have something real, a connection with one another. Sharing parts of yourself within this cult and with our members can help you find your way through dark times, as well as keep you in high spirits instead of waiting for another axe to fall.


Please make sure that your first post is in the Introductions thread. This way a member of Staff will be able to add your name & your points to your user-title.

Respect everyone in this cult, especially the members who are in need of advice -- even if you feel as though their problem is minor. Keep in mind that everyone deals with things differently. An issue that you may be able to work through within a few days can be more difficult for another person to cope with.

Don't diagnose another member. We're not doctors nor are we mental health professionals. We're simply here to offer our advice and support.

Don't post about other cult members. If you're having a problem with another member or something that has been said // posted within the cult, please don't hesitate to Inbox a Staff member. We'll do our best to help you out and resolve the issue as soon as possible.

All VF terms of service apply.


Daily Quote

"Promises are the uniquely human way
of ordering the future, making it predictable
and reliable to the extent that
this is humanly possible."
-- Hannah Arendt.

Daily Message

If you’re too easily distracted, don’t blame the distractions. Instead, consider how you could make your work more meaningful and compelling.

Rather than fighting against the distractions, overpower them. Seek to put things in your life and your work that are so interesting and captivating that the plain old ordinary distractions are left with no way to compete.

It’s much easier for the little, meaningless things to distract you if you’re subconsciously looking for things to distract you. The more you focus on what’s truly important in your life, the less you’ll be knocked off your task by distractions.

Imagine what you could focus on that would get you totally engaged and absorbed and immune to just about any kind of distraction. Imagine what things would be so thoroughly meaningful to you that it would be nearly impossible to pull you away from them.

You owe it to yourself to follow a strong and compelling purpose. You owe it to life to work toward the achievement of those things that mean the most to you.

Instead of letting yourself be too easily distracted, allow yourself to be filled with enthusiasm for following your authentic purpose. The more energy you give to what matters, the less you’ll be bothered by what doesn't.

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