• Respect everyone in this cult, especially the members who are in need of advice -- even if you feel as though their problem is minor. Keep in mind that everyone deals with things differently. An issue that you may be able to work through within a few days can be more difficult for another person to cope with.
• Don't diagnose another member. We're not doctors nor are we mental health professionals. We're simply here to offer our advice and support.
• Don't post about other cult members. If you're having a problem with another member or something that has been said // posted within the cult, please don't hesitate to Inbox a Staff member. We'll do our best to help you out and resolve the issue as soon as possible.
• All VF terms of service apply.
Rather than fighting against the distractions, overpower them. Seek to put things in your life and your work that are so interesting and captivating that the plain old ordinary distractions are left with no way to compete.
It’s much easier for the little, meaningless things to distract you if you’re subconsciously looking for things to distract you. The more you focus on what’s truly important in your life, the less you’ll be knocked off your task by distractions.
Imagine what you could focus on that would get you totally engaged and absorbed and immune to just about any kind of distraction. Imagine what things would be so thoroughly meaningful to you that it would be nearly impossible to pull you away from them.
You owe it to yourself to follow a strong and compelling purpose. You owe it to life to work toward the achievement of those things that mean the most to you.
Instead of letting yourself be too easily distracted, allow yourself to be filled with enthusiasm for following your authentic purpose. The more energy you give to what matters, the less you’ll be bothered by what doesn't.