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The mission of this cult is to offer advice, help, love, and support to
We specifically aim to help who are suffering from mental health issues of any kind. This includes, but is in no way limited to those who are dealing with self-harm (self-mutilation, eating disorders, addictions, substance or alcohol abuse, etc.).
We are also here to support survivors of abuse of any kind.
When you join please make your first post in the
thread so we can do your usertitle and we'd love to get to know you.
Please also make sure you
read our rules
The cult has a Three Strikes Policy for rule violations. The rules which garner strikes are labelled as such.
The first strike will be accompanied by a 1 day suspension, the second strike will be accompanied by a 1 week suspension, should a member continue to violate rules they will be banned on their third strike.
Members who violate rules will be inboxed when they receive a strike.
: Be respectful of others. If you have nothing helpful/constructive to say, say nothing. Being respectful means being polite even if you have a difference of opinion with someone. Be civil with other members if you can't manage to work up being friendly. DO NOT be condescending or rude. Be polite or be silent. People come here for a safe/helpful environment.
give harmful advice. You may think people will realise it's "just a joke", however sometimes when someone is sick or upset they could end up seriously harmed if you give harmful advice.
: i)Do not post triggering images in this cult. This means no images which involve suicide/selfharm/violence/weapons/blood/substances (including tobacco&/alcohol).
This includes, but is not limited to:
EMBEDDED IMAGES, ICONS, EMOTES
ii)If you post in this cult with a triggering icon you will be asked to remove it if you fail to remove it upon request you will be striked.
Putting a trigger warning on an image does NOT make it acceptable to post; the rule is NO triggering images.
post "Goodbye"/"Suicide" threads and then refuse help. If you do so your thread will be closed and you will be directed to get immediate medical attention. If you just want to vent/rant we have both a
thread and a
[repeat offenders will be striked]
: Do not use this cult as an inbox. Do not start threads aimed at or talking about other members. Also, do not use comments to bring personal drama you have with the OP into the cult.
: If what you are posting is related to substances/alcohol/abuses/or harm it may be triggering to other members. If the thread you are posting the comment in does not contain a warning in the title
PLEASE PUT "TRIGGER WARNING" IN THE SUBJECT LINE
of your post so that members can easily avoid things which may trigger them should they need to. People who repeatedly neglect to do so will gain a strike.
: Type legibly. IE; I h8 wen u tpy lyk dys itz hRd 2 r34d. Some people have dyslexia, typing like this is extremely annoying and very difficult to read. Typos happen, but try your best to type properly please.
: Stay on topic. Threads have topics for a reason, please try to stay on topic when posting. If there's not a thread for the topic you want to discuss feel free to create one. Thank you.
: DO NOT post multiple posts back to back in the same thread. If you'd like to edit or expand upon your previous post and no one has commented after it please click EDIT and amend your ONE post. Thank you.
: Do NOT make spam posts. You are welcome to post anything you like as long as it does not violate cult or vf rules HOWEVER, random posts that contribute nothing to the topic/discussion/cult/etc will be seen as spam and repeat offenders will be given a strike&/suspended.
We are now accepting applications for 2 open Mod positions.
Wednesday - [
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Kirsty - [
Claire - [
Eric - [
Helen - [
Jamee - [
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Jay - [
Marcus - [
Cristina - [
Alexandria - [
Michele - [
Rynn/Jayde - [
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Jas - [
Kitten - [
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Congratulations go out to our lovely miss
for winning our cult's Member of the Month for December. She is also featured
in her own interview thread. She also won the contest of the month for November, Best Halloween Costume!
for winning our cult's Member of the Month for November. The MOTM is also featured
in their own interview thread and in their own section of the anchor box
We would like to wish a Happy Birthday to everyone celebrating this month! A special Happy Birthday go out to:
on the 11th and our Co-owner
on the 25th!
If you would like to have your birthday shared with the cult please
share it here
We would also like you to welcome
as our newest Admin!
Congratulations to Helen[
] for winning the Contest of the Month for September[Best Self-portrait]. The winning photo is also featured in our
Happy Birthday to all our members celebrating this month! A very special birthday wish goes out to
who will be celebrating on October 9th. If you would like to have your birthday shared with the cult please
share it here
It is with heavy heart that I inform you all that our former member (and staff member) Meow has lost her life. All of our staff would like to extend our deepest sympathies to all friends/family/etc. Anyone who needs to talk is welcome to post here,
, or contact us through the cult's email
The Member of the Month contest will return in March.
The winner is featured both in this section as well as in their own Member of the Month Interview thread which appears in the General Discussions subforum.
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