Call me Cherry. Welcome to my darker side. Born in San Diego, CA in 1965...after 43 years, 51 weeks and 6 days in my beloved city, I relocated to Washington. Bah. I still want to go home. By day, I am a nurse. By night, I love everything Dark and Vampy. I love making new friends- all ages, all types, men and women. I neither judge nor discriminate, and pretty much get along with everyone. I am very self assured and confident, even narcissistic. Take me as I am, for this is me. DO NOT ASK if I have Skype, MSN, KIK, or to watch you on cam. Not going to happen. I'm not here to cybersex with you. Additionally, if you are under 18, please do not message me. Nothing personal, just my preference. If you are like 13 and you message me, I WILL NOT REPLY. Not because I'm mean, just playing it safe. You understand. Thanks! Messages that say nothing more than "you're sexy/cute/beautiful" (way to state the obvious) will be overlooked. It's not that I don't appreciate the compliment but I am here to make friends, nothing more. mmmmkay? Thanks! I'm a total contradiction. I hate being the center of attention but I love being the center of attention. I crave loneliness yet wish for company. I trust NO ONE, but believe in second chances. obsessive compulsive disorder, suicidal ideation, abandonment issues and separation anxiety. I am a conspiracy theorist. if I was anyone else I would totally want to hang out with me. I am as honest as I can be- with the exception of the occasional gentle deception that is necessary at times to prevent hurting someone's feelings. I love you, I hate you, I need you, I'm a loner. I despise ass-kissers; I'd rather have a million enemies than one fake friend. I may be a little more outspoken than I should be, bordering on inappropriate. I don't talk much here but if you have something to say besides telling me I'm pretty, that's different. Don't add me without even talking to me first. That doesn't make sense. I'm not here to collect bodies. I have pretty much lost all hope that I will find anyone here near my age, but it's not like I have one foot in the grave either (although, when I was your age, I would think I was old too lol). Definitely single and NOT looking. That may be enough about me... Thanks for stopping by, and extra snuggles for those of you that actually take the time to read this! Be respectful or get out. That being said, have a beautiful dark day! xoxo
I love all things dark. All things dark pink and red. Cherries. California. Disneyland. Palm Trees. The Beach/Ocean. Genital piercings. Safe, sane and consensual BDSM. Tattoos. Cemeteries. Women. Men. Pain. Stalkers. High heels. Smoking. Shiny, sparkly things. Cherry Vodka. Jelly Beans. Limos. Mayhem and Uproar fests. Camping (staying in a lodge or cabin by a lake or beach is my idea of camping). Kayaking. Traveling. Las Vegas. BI men. I Love Lucy. Modern/Modernist art and decor. Waking up to discover that I still have a few hours to sleep. Reading. Texting (not SEXTING, don't get it twisted). Lavender baths. My delicious cherry scented bedroom, with its dark cherry red wall. The elderly. Honesty. Strength. Confidence. Being silly and ridiculous, whether sober or drunk...I'm not a known giver of fucks.
Drugs. Liars. Beggars. Thieves. Makeup. Religion. Robots. Wax figures. Marionette puppets. Ventriloquist dummies. Taxis. Rubber bands. Paper clips (my staff's overabundant use of them is going to drive me off the deep end lol). Math. Junk mail. Dirty shoes. Sunlight. Snow. Duckface pics (PLEASE stop doing that ASAFP). Fake, two faced motherfuckers. Facebook (I use it but I don't like it lol). Grocery shopping-what a vile task. I'm not a grammar Nazi, but inappropriate use of *There, their and they're/Your and You're drives me crazy.
ALL THINGS METAL, for starters...not a HUGE fan of classic rock but I can listen to it without my ears bleeding. I must be getting old. Symphony..Symphony + Metal...yesssss. Old Metallica, Megadeth, Disturbed, A7X, LOG, COF, In Flames, Trivium, Testament, BLS, Ozzy, Sublime, NIN, Godsmack, Anew Revolution, JP, Misfits, Pantera, Down, Slayer, AIC, Chevelle, Saliva, Aranda, FFDP, Ten Years, Apocalyptica, Marilyn Manson, Mudvayne, Killswitch Eng, Otep, Opeth, Marduk, Combichrist, Seether, Drowning Pool, As I Lay Dying, Soulidium, RATM, Sick Puppies, Theory of a Deadman, Stone Sour, Slipknot, Tool, TDG... fuck it. too many to list, lots of hard genres. You get the idea.