Liason-With-A-Spider

JUST ME...

My name is Jenn, but some of my close friends know me as Spider. I moved here to New Zealand two years ago now, to live with my partner Grant and Life is good! I survived dealing with NZ immigration and am now a permanent resident, WooHoo!! I met Grant right here on VF and will forever be in their debt, because he is the light in my darkness...I am no longer alone or without love... :)

I'm easy to talk to so leave me a msg or comment. I try to respond to everyone, but it's hard to get online, so it may take me awhile to respond. I've already found love, so friendship is what I'm looking for.

I'm a Libra with a Sag rising, so I like to have fun and can be a bit of a tom-boy. I have an Aries moon so I have a quick temper, but I don't really hold grudges...I get over stuff fast. I believe that Love is one of the most important things that we can experience in this world and I traveled to the other side of the world to find it.

I believe in being honest, and have a reputation for being blunt, but I also believe in being polite and I expect it in return. I will take you at your word until you prove that I shouldn't. I am usually very patient, but I have my limits like everyone else. Being kind doesn't mean being weak...remember that if you force me to tell you to Fuck off!

I'm complex and intelligent, so don't judge me until you know me. I'm a generally happy person, but I've been through depression and suicide so I try to be compassionate and understanding. I am also human and have human needs, so be respectful. I am stubborn and won't change my mind or opinion just because you think I should, but talk and I'll listen...you never know :) p>

I read tarot cards and have a fascination for numerology and astrology. I read a LOT actually; I own over 2,000 books on many different subjects. I love horses and have owned two in my lifetime. I spent my middle and high school years living in the country, but I do love the city and it's chaos.

MY OTHER HALF...

This is my partner, Grant dak69. He is the most amazing person, you should check him out! He is the light in my darkness, an angel sent from above just for me...

I have never felt this way about another human being and every day I am amazed that he is mine and that I am his. He is so passionate about Life and Love and I look forward to sharing all that this world has to offer with him by my side and holding my hand...I love you so much Baby!

Likes:

MY PLEASURES IN LIFE...

My Boyfriend!!, My friends, My family, Singing, Reading, Paintball, Silliness, Kissing, Sex, Laughing, Motorcycles, Drinking, Making new friends, Karaoke, Open mikes, Moving water, Dragonflies, Amethyst...Jasper...hematite and Amber, Camouflage, Writing poetry, Old Black and white films, Cooking, Pumpkin Bread...Pumpkin Pie and Pumpkin soup, My platform boots, The wings I made for Halloween, Handcuffs and blindfolds, Strawberry shortcake (the dessert)...Chocolate cake and Cheesecake, Antique cars, Airplanes and flying, Boats (I want to learn to sail), Spanking, Porn, Johnny Lee Miller, Johnny Walker Black...mmmm..., Bourbon & Colas...Margaritas...Martinis and Lemon Drops, Strawberry Licorce...Peanut Butter Cups...Dark Chocolate and Chocolate Chip Cookies, Camcorders, Shells and the Beach, Thunderstorms, Walking in the rain, Black Holes, Physics, Purple...Red...Black and Orange, Art Galleries, Cayenne Pepper, Honey, Lipgloss, Chopsticks, Roleplaying, Movies (especially Horror and Sci-Fi), The Theater, Vanilla and chocolate ice cream, Walking in cemeteries at night, Moonlight, White Tigers...Jaguars and Meerkats, Dragons, Fairies, New experiences, People who smile with their eyes, Being tickled, Drawing, Sculpting, Games (all kinds), Holidays, Piercings, Tattoos, Florida, Flowers, Unicorns, Guys who will stick up for me, Touching, Talking, Animals, Martial Arts, Wrestling, Hockey, Playing Baseball, The Godiva Halloween Bears (I collect them), Jet noise

STUFF I LIKE...

FAVORITE AUTHORS...

Anything by: Algernon Blackwood, Laurell K. hamilton, Charles de Lint, C.S. Lewis, J.R.R. Tolkien, Michael Crichton, Arthur C. Clarke, Dean Koontz, Piers Anthony, Terry Pratchett, Poul Anderson, Fred Saberhagen, Brian Jacques, Robert L. Forward, Robert Heinlein, Brian Bliss, Anne McCaffrey, Isaac Asimov, Ben Bova, Larry Niven, Anais Nin, Anne Rice, C.J. Cherryh, Stephen King, Anything Scientific (I have a lot of books on Physics).

Dislikes:

IRRITATIONS...

I HATE being humored! Don't try to spare my feelings, if you have something you need to get off your chest. Now, I don't mean you have to be nasty or arrogant or impolite, but if you have a need to say something then just say it. If you don't you'll just end up hurting us both in the end.

Control freaks, Petty and manipulative people, People who think that because I like Sex that I'm Easy, Brussel Sprouts, Liver, Tripe, Anchovies, LIARS...there's no need to lie to me or anyone else, Injustice, Intolerance, Impoliteness, Judgmental people, Cruelty and Abuse of any kind to any living creature whether it's physical or verbal, My exes who thought I was too sexual (?????), People who find out your buttons and then push them...

THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL...

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Favorite Music:

MY AURAL PLEASURES...

I like many different kinds of music, because I have many different moods. The following list is NOT in order of preference:

Local Philadelphia bands: Tapping the Vein, Jen Molloy and Exit, Necromantix Sunshine, Carfax Abbey. Yohimbe Band (my friends band).

New Zealand bands/musicians: Headless Chickens, Che Fu, Salmonella Dub, Fur Patrol, Crowded House, Anika Moa, Anna Coddington, Op Shop, Elemeno P, Fat Freddy's Drop, Minuit (min-wee), Tiki Tane, Split Enz, Dave Dobbyn, Blindspott.

The Corrs, Naked Eyes, Thomas Dolby, My Chemical Romance, Softcell, Dead Can Dance, Bjork, Talking Heads, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Queen, The Police, Fiona Apple, Peter Gabriel, White Stripes, Gavin DeGraw, The Donnas, KMFDM, Pink Floyd, Portishead, Misfits (and Danzig), Tristania, Mozart, Handel, Evanescence, Rammstein, Pantera, ColdPlay, Breaking Benjamin, Ben Folds Five, Alice Cooper, The Shroud, Gitane Demon, U2, Berlin, Red-Hot ChiliPeppers, Nine Inch Nails, Led Zepplin, Ozzy, Nickelback, Blondie, Creed, Modest Mouse, Delerium, Dido, Poe, Billie Holliday, Nat King Cole, The Ramones, Handel, Black Grape, Happy Mondays, Beatles, Deep Forest, OMD, Frank Sinatra, Finger 11, 3 Doors Down, Aria, Medieval Babes, Bauhaus, Soundgarden, AC/DC, Disturbed, Black Tape for a Blue Girl, Switchblade Symphony, Skinny Puppy, Gwar, Solas, Lorenna McKinnet, Clandestine, They Might Be Giants, Metallica, Pantera, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Rush, Linkin Park, Puddle of Mud, Pat Benatar, Concrete Blonde, No Doubt, Violent Femmes, My Dying Bride, Sengir, My Lament, Bush, Beck, America, Fleetwood Mac, Rush, Lorenna Mckinnett...and many, many more!!!!!!

I also like to hang out at the clubs where my DJ friends 'Kiltboy' and 'Anorexotica' are spinning! If you're ever in Philadelphia, look for them, they are Awesome!!!

MY FAV FILMS AND SHOWS...

TV: Fringe, Journeyman, The Cult (NZ show), Outrageous Fortune (NZ show), Dexter, Life on Mars,, Dr. Who (Old and New), Monty Python, The Black Adder, Space above and beyond, Star Trek (all of them), Stargate (all of them), The Avengers, Drawn Together, Family Guy, The Simpsons, Futurama, Firefly, American Dad, Venture Brothers, Smallville, Supernatural, Robot Chicken, The Big Bang Theory, The Twilight Zone, etc...

FILM: ANYTHING Sci Fi!!!...Seriously...Anything! District 9, What Dreams May Come, The Illusionist, Donnie Darko, The Secretary, Office Space, Being John Malkovich, My Best Friends Wedding, Night of the Living Dead, Some Kind of Wonderful, V for Vendetta, The Matrix trilogy, The Aliens films, Suspiria, League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, X-Men films, Benny and Joon, The Hitcher (orig.), The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Goodfellas, The Godfather, Stranger Than Fiction, The Devils Advocate, Constantine, The Sixth Sense, Unbreakable, The Wedding Singer, Mr Deeds, Phenomenon, Powder, The Punisher, HellBoy, Memento, Dead Poets Society, The Green Mile, Once upon a time in America, Videodrome, The Dark Crystal, Labryinth, Cemetary Man, V for Vendetta, Ultraviolet, Dark City, Pretty In Pink, The Breakfast Club, 30 Days of Night, 28 Days, etc., etc., etc...

WHERE I HANG...

Homepage: http://www.myspace.com/spider_jenn
Link 1: http://www.Facebook.com/jennifer.pannulla

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