Hi I'm Jet! I'm the webmaster / founder of this site. I also own the VF Store
as well as Lunatik
hair dye, Destrukture
clothing, and crillers
shoes. I also am an event promoter / dj in the NYC area, with events such as 'Cybertron', 'Triton Festival', and 'Dark Side Of the Con'.
I have an awesome son named Joshua
who means the world to me. i have a fiancee named bandit who is the love of my life.
I’m a web programmer / web application engineer / computer geek. I have a degree in computer science.
I'm generally pretty busy but I like to have friends and do fun things. I'm pretty easy-going and relaxed, although I do get moments of depression / existential crisis. I feel like I've been through a lot, and I try to enjoy the journey rather than waiting for an endpoint. It's been said that you can find me by following the trail of tears and broken hearts.
I'm just another shy antisocial computer geek. Just another lost soul trying to make sense of the world. I like to think about the decisions we make and their outcomes. How different people interact, why we choose to be a certain way. This world is so full of deception and secrets. People getting recycled into different relationships. Our intricate web of drama and truth.
What is "goth" really? I've seen many definitions. Usually it's defined as a way of life, a way of thinking, a personal style choice. On the outside, the most apparent differences are music styles and clothing style. On the inside, it's more a different way of thinking. It is interesting how the goth scene changes though, the goth scene of today is nothing like the goth scene of the 80s. New music, new dress style. To some old skool goths, the goth scene died years ago. To me, its still alive but its mutated and not quite the same. In a way, this site is my attempt to revive the scene.
I'm usually a relaxed person. I've been through enough to know that it's useless to get upset over little things, so its pretty hard to get me upset. If you disprespect me I simply stop trusting you. Life's too short to be upset all the time. I've been through a depression phase in my teens, as it seems a lot of freaks tend to go through some sort of hard times, and I think that its healthy to experience pain. It only makes you stronger, and once you're through with it, it's harder to get hurt and makes you a better person. Looking back at hard times, I learn to appreciate it for the experience.
I do read all the comments I receive, but I rarely have the time to respond, so don't be offended if you don't get a response. Sorry but if I tried responding to all my messages I'd never get anything else done.
If you have any site issues, please report them to the vf VF Support team
and they will help you out. Q & A:
Why did I create VF? It was something I just did for fun while I was in college, and I just kept working on it. It's become a community of dark-minded individuals, a place where we can be ourselves without worrying about judgement, and also a place we can feel at home. VF has been around for a billion years just like me. One day the humans will catch on to my immortality but for now I will lurk among the normies.
Do you have to be a gothick to be on VF? nope but you do have to be a weirdo.
How many marijuanas have you injected today? yes.