"Every point of view is useful, even those that are wrong - if we can judge why a wrong view was accepted." Legion I live by that line when ever I have to discuss a subject. People let emotions cloud their thoughts and then it takes over. Afterwards regretting the choice yet never understand why they made it. "We do not experience fear, but we understand how it affects you." Is also another line I live by. If you ask me a question on how to fix a problem. I can walk you through how to fix it. It wont be emotionally sound, but it will complete what ever objective you are trying to achieve. If you say it can't be done. I will understand to a degree why that is so and compensate for it.