If you're looking to be anything more than a friend, know that I'm terribly sadistic and will find the greatest pleasure in not only physically, but emotionally, and possibly even socially hurting you. For example, choking, slapping. Calling you names. Making you do things in public, and or doing things to you in public. Which can be done long distance, might I add. Think of a master-slave relationship. And I love long walks on the beach.